Rant! Really angry Okay so my husband has really pissed me off! Last week week we got into a huge…

Rant! Really angry

Okay so my husband has really pissed me off! Last week week we got into a huge fight and when the fight settled he asks me to go the movies and says we can take the baby to his moms. I decline. I was still a little upset. I looked a mess and I just wasn't feeling it. He says okay and tells me his mom is gonna come by to see the baby I'm like okay cool. When she gets here he asks her if she is doing anything and if she would watch our son so we can go to the movies. I glare at him and she says yes. I decline and tell him I don't want to go. He starts begging. I tell him no again and say it's close to the babies bed time. He tells me his mom can give him a bath and put him to bed, I tell him I look a mess and he is like oh you're fine please please. He makes it hard for me to say no because while he is begging me his mom is like oh you should go I'll watch the baby I promise he will be fine blah blah blah. So we leave and go to dinner in the car I tell him that it was no okay to undermine me in front of his mom and I told him I didn't want to go and that he should of left it at that and I also tell him it wasn't okay to offer up Liams bath time to his mom that's a very important part of me and the babies day and I like that time with him so we get into a mini fight about that. He has court tomorrow and his grandma just volunteered herself to watch our son. I told my husband she can meet us at the court house and take him for a stroll in his stroller or take him to one of the restaurants close by and sit with him or something. Last time she watched him he was so upset crying hysterically so I wanted her close just in case he got upset again it was awful. I kept telling him to tell her and he wouldn't so I did then today he tells me that she told him I said she couldn't watch him and that he told her that we could meet her at his dad's house so that she could watch him there his dad lives semi close to where we are going. So again he undermines my decision! I'm mad she lied to him telling him I said she couldn't watch him I have the texts to prove that's not how the conversations went and I tell him thisand he thinks I'm over reacting! For me it's a matter of respect. I'm your wife when i tell you something you stand by me and if you don't like it then it's for me and you to discuss we are him parents not your mom or your grandma. I feel like he isn't respecting me as Liams mom making decisions with out me or has a parent. I'm really mad. I don't know what to do I've already tried talking to him