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Major advice needed :( I'm in a very stressful situation and I need advice. I'm 26 weeks pregnant…

Major advice needed :(

I'm in a very stressful situation and I need advice. I'm 26 weeks pregnant and very excited. Right now I'm living with my mom and let's just say her house is very crowded my sister is 26 and lives here with her husband and 3 kids and step son. My boyfriend and I have a room and my sister and her family live in the living room. My sister can't support herself and I found out she's pregnant... Again and due about a month after me. My mom doesn't know. I don't know why the fact that my sister is pregnant again upsets me so much but it does and I feel like it's because my mom is going to lose it when she finds out there are 2 babies coming and my sister can't support herself or her family and yet she keeps having more children!! My boyfriend and I are only 18 and he's the only one working and we make more then her and her husband do. She's so lazy and has no intentions of getting it together. I feel like my mom needs to know about this so we can discuss this as a family but my sister has no intention of telling her. I've been keeping this a secret for sometime now but it's bothering me. I don't want to betray my sister but I want to tell my mom. Would it be wrong of me to tell my mom? The thought of two new borns on top of all the other children living her makes me feel very stressed and makes me not want to live at my moms. My boyfriend and I can afford an apartment with the money he makes but I don't want him stretching himself thin and our plan was to save up for a little while. I just don't know what to do it's stressing me so bad. I just can't believe my sister would get pregnant again after finding out I'm pregnant and she can't support the family she already has, my pregnancy just seems less exciting now and more stressful this is my first baby and I really wish she would of just let me have my moment and I really don't mean to sound selfish by saying that.