Karma is a Batch Sil So I've posted about my sil. Her borrowing money and never paying back. Then…
Karma is a Batch Sil
So I've posted about my sil. Her borrowing money and never paying back. Then using my info as her own to banks. Well she blew up my phone and dh yesterday. I was at work so I didn't pick up. Well dh did and she wanted to start babysitting our girls. That shes hurting really bad for cash and comes to our side of town because of her new BF shes had for 2 weeks... I knew it was only a matter of time till she wanted something from us. I didn't even consider it. Yeah we wouldn't have to drive to pick up our girls. Some days it only takes me 20min min to get out there and on heavy traffic days almost 45 min. But thats the only down fall. My other sil is the one who watches the girls. When I asked her she said yes right away and started babysitting for us the very next day. She has always worked with our schedule. Some weeks I only need her 3 days and some 5. Shes never told me no. She also drives to my side of town to pick up my oldest. The girls run to her when we drop them off. So I'm not going to mess up a good thing. It comes down to loyalty. That and my other sil is a huge flake. Shes flaked on birthday parties and babysitting before. I don't need that added stress. Plus I know shes only doing it for the money. My other sil dose it because where family and family helps each other... So I called her today and she went on about wanting to "help" us out. But yesterday while on the phone with dh. All she went on about was really needing the money. I told her thanks for the offer but I'm sticking with my other sil. The phone call pretty much ended there. I could tell in her voice she was upset or annoyed. Like really I'm not going to mess over my other sil whos doing a awesome job... I could go on all day about what she does for us. She really is the best babysitter I could ask for. I've never once stressed having my girls at her home... I just find it funny my other sil is asking me to basicly screw over my other sil.... So karma is a batch. This is what she gets for screwing me over so many times. Im all for helping family but she needs to grow up. Shes almost 22 jobless and parties all the time. She has 5 credit cards, car payment and school loans. Lives at home and just takes. Just last week she called me telling me how she did coke all night. Like really you think im going to let you watch my babies? My whole world and my reason for getting a job to make a better future for my girls. HA! She could offer to do it for free and I would still say no. I dont need someone coming to my home coming down off something or hungover... Is it bad I feel so good about telling her no? Im sure she won't talk to me for a min because of this. Im cool with that. Lol.