lesson learned rant So almost a month ago I let my sister barrow some money for a tattoo. Wasn't…

lesson learned rant

So almost a month ago I let my sister barrow some money for a tattoo. Wasn't much but figured it would be easy to pay back. She said she would pay me back in a week. Well it was almost two weeks when I asked about it. Just said it in mid convo and she told me one more week. I said okay no prob. Then slowly 3 weeks passed and I asked again. Again got the one week line. Then I ask her to please just pay me back by the thrid. Well the 3rd comes and goes and I basicly said screw it. Sent her a pm saying I'm just going to stop asking. That I was bummed and would have never have lent money to her if I knew she would blow me off. She pms back that she found it comical that I was going to ruin our relationship over money. About only having 10 to her name and she will get right on that "lol"... This is what set me off. I wasnt rude to her just straight forward. I then told her If she has just have been hounest and said Hey I'm flat broke and cant pay back anytime soon I've would of let it go. But don't keep telling me one thing and not expect me not to be a little upset... Then I did get a little mean and told her, her attitude sucked and there was no reason to be rude to me over something she kept saying she would pau back....Little back story in that month my car got totalled and I had just started a new job. We had to use all our savings and then some to get me a new one. She knew all of this. So at this point every penny counted and I told her about it over the phone. She again said dont worry I got you just waiting on my check. So 3 times she said one thing but never really did it. 4 if you count when she first barrowed the money. Yet she posted daily about going out, bought a plane ticket and a gym membership... So lesson learned never lend out money unless you dont plan to see it. I kinda had a feeling this would happen but I thought the $40 would be something she would be able to handle on paying back. $40 would have given my dh and I gas money for a week... One time I barrowed $10 from her and she was bugging the very next day for it. I payed her right back. Its no longer about the money but how she acted once I said forget about it. Maybe I shouldn't of said anything but I also didnt want her thinking this is okay to do to family. You dont jerk a person around for a month and try to twist it so its there fault. I know kinda petty but im more hurt over her comment. If that was me acting like that she would have blown up on me.... Ive seen her get called out before by her "friends" for doing the same crap. So now I know why she goes though them like candy... she has a princess mentality and has had everything handed to her. I also know its not her problem with my situation but still a whole month of playing games with a person whos always had her back. Stayed up late while she cried on the phone over a boy and taken her out to lunch because shes had a bad day. Smh okay im dont ranting.