Baby number six is keeping me on my toes Yall

So it started out that my 20 week anatomy scan that we found out that my cervix was funneling and a little bit short. Was put under some restrictions and went home. About a week and a half after that appointment I noticed that I was staying constantly wet with no clear white or slimy discharge just wet. so I called my doctor he wanted me to go to the hospital and hour and a half away and get checked for amniotic fluid because I had the funneling and he was concerned about possibly having a water leak. Well I call the hospital with the intention of finding out what would be the best time to come up there and get checked and they proceeded to tell me that what I was experiencing was normal and that I probably didn't need to Drive the hour and a half to get checked but if I really thought I needed to I could. Made me fell kinda dumb. well I didn't go. and two weeks later at my next appointment (24w) they couldn't see the funneling and my cervix Had gotten little bit thicker. My fluid level was measuring in the center of the scale they use. My doctor did not check me to see if I was leaking fluid and he did not check me for bacterial vaginosis like I ask and like the nurse told me to ask.