Sorry-long post
I don't post that often but I just need to rant...my mil is driving me crazy! We always got along while my husband and I were still dating but once we got married she's slowly turned into a crazy person. We have been together for almost 6 years and have been married for a little over a year. Now, she tries to control everything and throws a fit like a 2 year old if she doesn't get her way. My husband forgot something at her house and we stopped by on the way to the grocery store for him to pick it up. I was feeling pretty crappy all day and had the worst headache so I just sat in the car and waited for him. She walked outside to say hey (after my husband told her I wasn't feeling good at all). After she talks to me for a second, she slams the car door and stomps off back in the house, mad for some unknown reason. My husband was right there and was so confused (as was I) as to what had happened. So we left and my husband called her and asked her what was wrong and she started crying telling him that I had blew her off and was rude and always had an attitude (none of which was true and he called her out on it thank goodness). That is just one example of the many things she has done lately. She is always trying to make me out to be a bad person towards him and makes stuff up to do it. She never talks to me but when she talks to my husband, she's always asking how "her" baby is. She thinks that she's going to get to always have my baby and be around all the time. Is it wrong to not want her around my child at all once it's born when she can't even have a relationship with me?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
So over this feeling!
Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The...
Advice please ?
Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of d...
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill?
He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over...