35 and trying for #2. ????

Hello beautiful ladies! Just wanted to introduce myself. I'm Barbara and we are trying for #2. Conceiving #1 was a long and difficult journey. We were trying for 3 years. We had 1 ectopic, 1 chemical, 4.5 rounds of IVF, a stillborn at 5months and a ton of scarring in my uterus that I thought we needed a surrogate. We ran out of money and decided to try an IUI and by some miracle, got pregnant on the first try. #1 is now 2 years old and we just did our IUI 2 days ago.