ladies weight gain help So I am on my second baby currently 30 weeks. My first born tore up my body…

ladies weight gain help

So I am on my second baby currently 30 weeks. My first born tore up my body I mean I was 115 pre pregnancy I delivered 213 pounds I was horrified my obgyn had me write down everything I ate. I had pre clamsia and high blood pressure with my son. I was closely watched by everyone just couldn't not gain weight no matter how hard I tried..I was never able to get back to pre weight my body was just wrecked it okay. Had lost 50 pounds after birth and couldn't loose after I stopped breastfeeding. I had got married gained a step daughter fulltime job and supported my family. The stress I was under put me at a weight gain. I then got pregnant I'm 22 I was 190 before baby and I'm 30 weeks gained 33 pounds I had lost about 10 nd weighed 180 durning 1st trimester I was very sick.. My doctor doesn't realize I can not control my weight gain and I was kinda upset today she stated I was trying I eat the same thing threw out the day ecept dinner and don't snack on bad sweets I'm so worried bout this baby pushing me to a obeise category being that I'm 5'6 I just can't help it I need advice or a trainer or a blessing I'm so eager to get this baby out just so I can get to my diet and exercise to loose 70 pounds I don't have much support just a vent nd a post to see if anyone else is in my boat with weight gain.