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Laura
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hitting / sharing How do you with more than 1 lo deal with sharing and toys? It seems like things between ryder and…

hitting / sharing

How do you with more than 1 lo deal with sharing and toys? It seems like things between ryder and akaia just keep getting worse and worse... Ryder has started hitting akaia (which is more of a shove not that that is any better) along with a no akaia mine! Akaia has been taking things more from him too, which I'm working on, but she now finds it fun to hit him with toys which I can only imagine is fun because she sees ryder hit her. I've been working on teaching ryder to move and take a minute when he is so mad with her that he wants to hit her. DH has been home and watching them while I do stuff in other rooms and last night put ryder in a timeout for 10 minutes and took a toy away. Today I heard what sounded like a spank, but actually sat down and talked to him. He says he learned hitting from me, and I'm at a loss. He doesn't do it at preschool at all it is only to akaia and occasionally to us if he is really mad. Any suggestions?

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want…

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?