feel bad My husband went back to work today so I'm home with my son which he just turned 2 and then my 1 month old…

Aww, that sounds frustrating. I'm sure you'll figure out a system soon. I know I hate letting my girls cry too. It's so hard when they are both being difficult at the same time.

Are you EP'ing? Maybe set the milk out in advance so it's already room temp when they're hungry. Bm can sit out for like 4 hours.

It must be so frustrating :( I hate when more than one of mine are crying and I don't even have two itty bitties

Pp just gave a good suggestion. I did that with my dd when she was younger. I would time their next meal so the bottle was ready half hour before she screamed. I find that by warming up milk first then setting it aside at room temp makes my milk lasts longer compared to without warming.

I have to add neosure to each feeding and that can't sit out very long. And my girls will only drink milk when it's hot or I would warm it up before.

And they go from eating every 2 hours and 4 hours so it's hard to have it ready.

But yes breast milk

You're doing a good job! I feel like I would probably go beserk. My mom had me and then twins when I was 18 months. Her saving grace was some neighborhood girls that would come and take me outside to Play or hold a baby. Is there anyone who might be willing to come and help? Even an elderly retired neighbor can hold a baby!

My mom came today which was nice. But I only have help Monday, Tuesday and Thursdays.