woke up to AF & all of her emotional baggage....
woke up to AF & all of her emotional baggage....
I've only been TTC since November of last year but I've already noticed the emotional rollercoaster that comes w/ taking this journey...idk if I'm the only one who feels this way & I know there are a lot of women who have been trying longer, it just gets discouraging... I really want a little one....I know it doesn't always happen soon...& I know I haven't been trying long but is it still ok for me to be really sad that AF showed....I'm sorry i'm just venting....?? until next month....
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Don't be so silly ~ the first month of unsuccessful trying can be as hard and emotionally draining as the 5th or 50th for some people!! Everyone feels differently but something I'm sure all us ladies can relate to is that sinking feeling & lump in the throats associated with the unwanted arrival of AF. Me and my OH have only been really trying since my periods became regularly again following the depo injection (ran out in April 16) which was about Sep 16 & we've had no luck yet despite trying more on fertile days and doing ovulation kits etc. The stark one line on a negative preg test is as painful each time! In that time at least 5 close people I know have fallen pregnant or had their babies & it's hard not to feel slightly bitter or envious. But our time will come, stressing doesn't help so try to stay calm. Don't beat yourself up for feeling any way, it's your journey & a personal one at that, feel how u want and need to & always be kind to yourself. Don't let the baby dancing rule you either, take time to have a nice bath & do yourself up & feel real good on them peak days so it doesn't feel like a job! Good luck and fairy dust your way xxx sorry for the essay lol xx
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I completely understand where you are coming from. You just wish you would get it on the first try. Our first time it only took us 3 months.... but the second time took a little longer and because it took longer I got so discouraged I didn't think we would have another one. It will come... just try new things and something might work better.
Angelica LeBelle·
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Thanks hun...we're getting ready for month three...tomorrow...I've got my fingers crossed...I'm hopeful...really trying not to stress it this month...just gonna go w/ the flow this time....i guess I just didn't expect it to take long but I'm patient enough to wait for our Lil blessing to come...