So yesterday my husband and I went to his family house where his mother was hanging out at. We have two small children together 3 and 1 he wanted to take the kids with him so I decided to go! Yes, I go wherever my kids are going or invited to..So his mother was at his Cousin house where everyone was meeting at...my kids and I havent seen her in a year! Yes a whole year! The reason is my mother in law is so extra, mean, bitter, and rude especially when she’s drunk! Last year her and I got into and I told her “get the fuck out my house and I no longer want a relationship with you” I meant that too so after a whole year of not seeing her she finally put some respect on my name! She know now to stop playing with me... She was so nice and respectful and so happy to see my kids... will I ever have a relationship with her...noooooooo.... it doesn’t work like that... just because she was nice one day doesn’t mean she’s change! I’m still keeping my distance, but it goes to show you if you put your foot down people start respecting you....Before all this she was a pain in the ass to me for years and I could no longer take it and I had to cut her off! Well probably never be close until she fully changes her ways!!!