anyone going through this
anyone going through this
Are their any newly single mom's in here my husband told me last night he thought being married was what he wanted but has come to realize it's not. And I'm done fighting for him to stay so I'm just gonna let him go I can't force someone to be happy that's just not ever gonna be happy... .and i was just wanting some support and what do I do from here. We have a 2 year old little boy who adores his daddy so much how do you explain to them what's going on? Or do u just leave it alone until they ask questions. Also 28 weeks pregnant with our daughter so have to try to remain calm and not stress as I'm already high risk and have pre eclampsia so definitely want to stay calm.
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There is a group called single parents on here which will help tremendously! Just try to stay calm. Don't argue in front of your children. If he wants to go, let him. It will be stressful at first but you will get into your own routine and things will get easier! You will stress more fighting to keep your marriage together when he's not willing to. Your child will see what's going on however saying it will be harder for them to handle. So just wait it out and if asked just explain daddy won't be here for a while. Sorry your going through this!! Best wishes
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I suggest counceling very heavily. If nothing else it will help you both to understand each other and have closure. And he needs to understand that those two babies cant just be yours to raise, you had help getting them and you need help keeping them.
Talk to your kid! Dont let them sit back alone and wonder what's happening, just tell them dad is going to live somewhere else now. Or have the dad tell them is better. Your kid deserves an explanation for this giant change to his life and his caretakers telling him is going to be a lot better for him than finding out slowly and alone.
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Go to counseling for yourself. Ask the professional what is the best way to talk to your kid about it & to address with the baby when she's old enough.
If you haven't tried counseling with him, make it your last attempt. If not then get yourself a good lawyer & put him on child support. If he thinks it's the easy way out he has another thing coming. Those kids are innocent & shouldn't pay for his so called confusion.
I'm sorry you're going through this. Surround yourself with positive people, friends or family.
kristi·
Thank yall. Our marriage has been on the rocks lately I've tried many many times to get him to do counseling but he refuses . Says it doesn't help just a waist of money. I just don't get how one can just simply say the no longer want to be married and after 2 kiddos.
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If its about the money a lot of churches do counceling absolutely free