anyone have advice Ladies I need some advice. If ur husband came to u and told u that when you and…

1. Get tested.

2. You were married at the time? If so, he should've kept his pants zipped. If not, maybe forgivable except...

3. He lied about it.

Only you can decide if it's really worth working through this. But get counseling to give you steps to rebuild trust. Personally I would have a rough time ever trusting a man- w**** who sleeps around anytime he feels depressed.

No not married at the time. And I've already been tested several times as I have to have tests every 6 months regardless due to heart issues.

I'd just cut my losses, I don't need that drama and his dishonesty.

No trust=NO relationship

If you weren't married at the time and he hasn't had in babies with these women or given you a disease I would forgive and forget. He was honest with you and I think that counts for something. I think you should move on and make more happy memories with your husband.

Um. You had PROOF he did, and so you KNEW he lied to you and got back together with him anyway.. So, if I got with a guy i knew was a liar, and knew he was lying about something specific, i certainly would not be surprised to find out later that I was right all along...?

But, then, I would not get with a guy I knew was a liar... I would not need to forgive him, I'd have just cut my losses the minute he started lying.

Look you knew the deal and knew he was lying. What did you really expect, hon? Why does this even change anything? i mean, you must have already forgiven him because you knew it happened and knew he lied about it, yet you got with him anyway- so why the need to re-forgive just because he finally confirmed what you already knew....

You just need to ask yourself if you want to keep settling for this guy, but i really don't get why this changes anything since you already had proof before you let him deny it...

Why did he confess now?

Has he given you any other reason not to trust him? If not then i say talk to him and let him know that youre hurt that he lied but i think he deserves a chance

He did come clean. So I do give the guy credit for that. He was probably feeling guilty from lying to you about it and needed to get it off his chest. At this point there's really not advise anyone else can give you. Sure, first thought is he's a liar get out. But we don't know this guy from Adam. He could be a good guy, only you know this. Has he given you any other reasons to not trust him? Is he sketchy in other ways? If not, then maybe you can move past this. I was kind of in a similar situation when I was dating someone but we weren't "official" I had asked him if he was dating other people. He told me no. Come to find out months down the road after we were official that he actually was. I was indeed furious and didn't understand why he lied to me. We weren't together at the time, why didn't he just tell me yes he was dating other people. Long story short I was upset, and people on this app actually told me to leave him. I didn't know what to do. In my heart I knew he was a good person. It took a while but he gained my trust back. We are still together today and have a 2 year old boy, getting married this March and I trust him 100% completely. So all this to say, only YOU know him best and really only you can make this decision.

If you were broken up, you can't get mad about him sleeping with others. Get mad at the lie, but you had proof and accepted it anyway... no reason to get mad at it now..

Using his child as an excuse to be a man w**** is disgusting. Mental anguish my ass. You don't bury mental anguish in so much p**** you can't count it. If he really was thinking about his child he would've came home begging to make it work. No, he had fun on his "time off" to get it out his system before coming back. He's a liar who makes excuses in his child's name. Not cute.

Do what you want with him though but make him be a man and own up to his s*** in his own darn name.