Do NOT touch MY belly! So... I was at my husbands grandmothers house and my super weird BIL was trying to rub my belly!…

Yup, hate being touched by anybody except hubby. Creepy bil sounds pretty gross. I went off on my mil for rubbing my stomach way before I was even showing. This, after I went off on her repeatedly last pregnancy for random touching. Sometimes, I want to rub her stomach just to show her how much fun it is. My (non in law) family knows better than to touch me, lol.

Yes i had to tell someone the same thing. I really dont like to be touched....lol

I say no all the time! That's my body yet, they can hold the baby when she comes out. Lately I've just been telling people that I'm being a germophobe (sorry for spelling) since the flu is really bad around here.

I haven't, BUT most people in my life know I'm not a touchy feely person and I don't like people in my space never mind touching me.

My husband is Colombian and has a cousin in town. He only speaks Spanish I only speak English. While he was talking to my hubby about our up coming baby he walks over and put his hands all over me.! I kept it together just because I know it is a different culture thing and I'm sure he didn't get it. But then my FIL who we are on bad terms walked over and I said no before he even put his hands up. Glad you were able to stop him. I really Don't like being touched either.

Wow what a grace reason to say to keep them away! So using that

I have told my family & all of husbands family that they can touch my belly at any point in time without asking me. My BIL has touched my belly freely more than my own husband. I actually enjoy it. So far I haven't had any other people want to touch me. I had a friend ask me though so I thought that was nice of her!

Yes I agree don't touch me

I dont mind, and dont understand y y'all don't allow it. Its crazy.

At least he asked. I have people just walk up and fondle my belly without asking. I hate it. I don't like anyone but my hubby touching it. Anyone else, I've literally pushed them away or turned my body. My sister hugged me while I was standing and she was sitting though and she said she could feel her that way. I was totally ok with that, maybe because it was her head and not her hands.

My SIL rubs mine all the time. It doesn't really bother me. My MIL does it too. Other than them and my husband, I'm not too fond of it, but I don't say no to anyone, unless they try to pull my shirt up. Through the shirt is more than enough. They do not need to touch me skin on skin.

Ya I don't mind if my female family members touch my belly but it's the guys. It's weird! And my BIL is real weird and always makes me feel uncomfortable

I hate being touched in really not a touchy person I wouldn't rub someone else's belly either! But my oh niece rubs mine all the time it makes me cringe! But mine goes to all touching I hate hugging people too, my family don't feel the need to hug and kiss everytime we leave each other whereas my partners families do and it really makes me mad. Oh's 16 year old brother tries to hug me whenever we leave I never know what to say!

I must add tho I kiss my son a lot and hug so I'm not heartless just get really touched out easily and appreciate personal space :)

I don't like strangers to touch me! And so far my BIL's haven't tried but my SIL's have. Which is fine! I find a good deterrent is to keep your hands and arms on it. I will talk to people and hold my own belly so they can't!

I don't like being touched, but I don't mind friends and family touching my belly at all. My bf's BIL who is in his late 40's was touching my belly on Christmas and I didn't mind. He's family and he's excited. I'm glad my baby boy is so loved already and everyone just wants to be close to him. I don't really feel like my belly belongs to me anymore lol my baby has taken it over.

My little sister kept rubbing my belly at our uncles house for dinner yesterday lol. It surprised me, not bothered, she's just not typically the type of person to so that. She's 24 and has ADHD so she's always going a million miles an hour. She's fun though. Just not the person to slow down for something like that.

I say no.all the time except for my mom & sisters my bf is fine he touches it all the time

I havent said no to family ive said nooooo to random people and strangers that will just touch my damn belly im like do you have your flu shot get away from me

Ya it's so weird when strangers do it. I had that happen only one time when I was pregnant with my son. I felt so violated lol

It's driving me insane!! My husbands cousin asked me if I was getting "bumpy" (?! That sounds so gross) and went in touch under my flowy sweater. I grabbed her wrist and said "you are not allowed to touch my stomach!!" I thought my husband was going to die from holding in his laughter!!

Lol people don't get it. I understand there's a baby in there and everyone just loves babies but it's still our bodies they are touching.