Unreasonable request? DF asked me what I wanted for our anniversary. I told him nothing because we…
Unreasonable request?
DF asked me what I wanted for our anniversary. I told him nothing because we got a little behind on bills with Grayson in the hospital, but DF doesn't take no for an answer. I got him a gift certificate to go golfing with my dad cause he really enjoys it. Well he asked what I wanted and I told him a pair of jeans that fit me. I'm 3 weeks PP and my maternity clothes are baggy but my regular jeans are too small still. He said it's not a very sentimental gift and wants to get me something with more meaning. Why can't he just understand that jeans that actually fit mean something to me?! ?
deleted-user·
Do you not plan on losing more weight? If not, great- get those jeans. But if you do plan to shed a few more lbs, I would wait. They will be of no use after that and a waste of money.
deleted-user·
I'd want jeans too. Even if I was planning on losing more weight.
Whatheshell ·
Cams- I do plan on losing more weight but nothing literally fits me. I told him I was happy to go to platos closet to get a pair that will cost next to nothing. I got a pair of jeans there that were 4 dollars.
Bow ties that's exactly how I feel. I don't even want brand new jeans. I'm just sick of everything not fitting me. Even my maternity clothes are too big on me now. ? I look frumpy when I go out.
deleted-user·
I get it. I just went to other mothers and got a few outfits even thought I just started a diet and workout. I needed something!
Whatheshell ·
Can you explain this to DF please ?!
deleted-user·
Tell him you just had a baby, your body is different then what it was, nothing fits and nice pair of jeans can go a long way confidence wise.
deleted-user·
Then tell him whether you understand or not this is what I want / need right now.
deleted-user·
Maybe a pedicure or manicure and a pair of jeans?
Whatheshell ·
Bowtie I tried explaining that when I told him I was down about myself. ?
I don't care for manicures and I do my feet myself lol
deleted-user·
Ok that makes sense. I was imagining a super nice pair. Yes, you should get your self some in between stuff. I live in yoga pants. Even though I fit into my prepreg jeans. ?
Whatheshell ·
Jealous can I fit into pre pregnant jeans now?! I never pay more than $20 dollars for a pair of jeans anyways.