Rant- future SIL and my baby shower
Rant- future SIL and my baby shower
My future SIL asked me when my baby shower was going to be so she could take the day off from work. I told her when then we were talking about how it's going to be costly. I was telling her I was going to see if my future MIL was STILL interested in helping my friend plan the shower since my friend is a very busy person and could use the help. Then I told her my DF and I were paying for the cost of food cause it is a jack and Jill shower and it's a cook out. She tells her husband (DFs brother) that I was going to ask my mother in law to pay for the shower cause I couldn't ask my friend to pay for all of it. NOT what I said at all. My DF already knew what we were planning to do and his brother contacted him saying it was fūčked up if I asked my MIL to help because she just did a bridal shower for there sister. I explained myself again to SIL about what I was going to say to our MIL because I wouldn't ever expect anyone to just pay for stuff or even come out and ask someone to do that. SIL lied to me and said she never said something to DFs brother! When my DF said that she sent his brother a screen shot of our convo. And she tried playing it off like she didn't know what I was talking about. Sorry if this is all over the place I'm just annoyed that she would lie to me and twist what I said then act oblivious when I bring it up to her.
Whatheshell ·
That was what I was thinking. And DF was like "well maybe she was embarrassed cause she read the text wrong". No she was causing drama and lied to me. Then lied to me again when she told me she never told DFs brother that we had even talked that day. I just can't stand when people lie. If you have an issue bring it up to me. Ughhhh
deleted-user·
Contact your MIL yourself say you don't want her to pay just help set up or pick things up you've ordered before SIL pisses her off with lies
Whatheshell ·
DF contacted his parents and said we wanted to sit down and talk to them about it this weekend. If I needed the money I would ask my own dad not my MIL and I would ask my dad for an emergency. Not a baby shower.
deleted-user·
Welcome to the wonderful world of SILS.. It only gets better from here! Lol
deleted-user·
Love sil! Hahahha not talk with your MIL on your own to avoid the drama of the phone game thru family
deleted-user·
My mil does this all the time. As soon as you question something that she knows she shouldn't have done she starts backtracking and acting like she has no idea how anyone would even know about a situation that only she was involved in....duh! You told them!
Whatheshell ·
What aggravates me even more is DF doesn't seem why I'm upset about it. Like the fact that she lied about it was okay.