Lingerie.... yay or nae Ladies ! Do you wear lingerie? If so what kind ? Does it help your sex life…
Lingerie.... yay or nae
Ladies ! Do you wear lingerie? If so what kind ? Does it help your sex life ? I just feel like if my husband isn't attracted to my naked body, then what's the point ? I don't know I'm just insecure about wearing lingerie and feeling awkward... give me tips and what to get if you do wear it !!!
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I like pretty full coverage myself. Like a silky nighty with some lace. It's as much for me as it is for him. I may be no fitness model, but I feel more sexy when I wear it which helps lol. I don't like things too skimpy, but you don't have to show it all to have it work the way it's intended ?.
But in the end it's all about personal confidence. If you don't love it too, you won't feel confident and sexy, and that ruins the experience. So find something you fee comfortable and attractive in.
Mrs.Santorno ·
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I've never worn anything like that since I've only had one other boyfriend before my husband and we weren't ever really intimate. I want my husband to stay interested and think I'm sexy, but I just don't know how !!! Lol help me spice up my marriage!
Mrs.Santorno ·
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The full coverage thing would probably help me allot since I feel uncomfortable wearing the normal lace that shows everything ! Lol
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Have you asked your DH what he would like to see on you?? My DH doesn't like all sheer stuff bc it doesn't "leave anything to the imagination" even though he knows what I look like naked ?
Choose something that makes your feel beautiful. Just last year (when I got pregnant) I decided to add high heels to my outfits and it changed EVERYTHING for him bc he's a shoe guy
Mrs.Santorno ·
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Yea I'll try asking what he would like to see, but I feel like it will be something I'll be uncomfortable with, especially since I'm 31 weeks pregnant.....
Mrs.Santorno ·
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I feel sexy wearing his shirt and sexy panties too but I guess it's not enough for him anymore
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Wait OP what do you mean not enough for him?? Has he told you he is losing interest or something? ?
Edit: or is this something you're just perceiving? A lot of the time if I have the right attitude I approach our time together differently than if I feel nervous about the way I look. Fake it til you make it! I was dressing up at 39 weeks ?
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I wear lingerie all the time, mostly when I'm not pregnant though because I don't fit into it lol
Now I'm either naked or just heels sometimes. We use toys as well.
You have to be open with your husband. Ask him what he likes!! Has he said anything to make you think he's not attracted to you?
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I used to. My husband is super freaked out by pregnancy sex so I don't bother anymore... I think it would freak him out to see the bump in "sexy things". I'm almost 35 weeks so maybe I'll try in a couple of months
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Usually I wear baby dolls because it covers everything ?
But for Valentines Day, I'm ordering a teddy in bright red. Dh isn't much into lingerie but I think it's more important how the woman feels in it. Confidence is attractive so no matter what you're wearing, if you feel good in it, your husband will find you absolutely sexy.
deleted-user·
I got a ton of lingerie at my bridal shower but haven't worn one piece. I figure it comes off anyways so why waste $$ on it unless it's given to you. Plus, I'm awkward AF so it wouldn't even be sexy lol
deleted-user·
I have bought lingerie for our anniversary and maybe a Valentine's Day but husband always takes it off immediately so he's always said he likes me with and without lol
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I would LOVE to have some sexy lingerie and I've asked honey's opinion, but he's just kind of bored when I mention it. We have a wonderful intimate life but no lingerie. SD 14 mentioned that her mom has an addiction to Fredrick's and Victoria's secret so maybe that's why he doesn't have input.
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I wear it sometimes, not as often as I don't though. I like it, it makes me feel sexy. And that helps me enjoy sex more. My husband is perfectly happy if I'm just naked though