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Gwen Trevitt
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Waiting on NIPT results I’m 38 years old and will still be 38 when I deliver . Because of anxiety , I opted out of the…

Waiting on NIPT results

I’m 38 years old and will still be 38 when I deliver . Because of anxiety , I opted out of the genetic testing and I also did with my 2 year old . My nt was normal at 13 weeks 6 days and a nasal bone was detected so the dr did say I can breathe pretty easily based off of that . Well , I had an early anatomy scan at 16.6 and they told me the baby has one or two small holes in her heart calls vsd’s and also two cysts on the brain , both of which are soft markets for downs and other chromosomal abnormalities . Well , the cysts on the brain I’m confused about because when the dr came in to look she said “well , that’s questionable . Idk .” She didn’t seem to think they were actually there and only put the vsd in my paperwork . She said the type of vsd is very common and more babies with than than not do not have chromosome abnormalities . (399 out of 400 babies with this condition will not have DS , but many Down syndrome babies have it ) She said they fully expect them to close up before birth and if not shortly after and to never affect her life but because of this , they can’t lower my risk with my age . So I opted for the blood test and now I’m just going out of my mind with worry . She didn’t have any other markers . She’s measuring slightly big and chromosomally abnormal babies often measure small , she said . Has anyone been through something similar? I avoided the test because of anxiety but here I am . I already have GD and I’ve been sick with a fever for over a week and I just want my baby to make it out of me healthy .

on the 6th October I did 2 test with 2 lines , 3rd test was clear blue digital and was positive 2-3 weeks I was waiting…

on the 6th October I did 2 test with 2 lines , 3rd test was clear blue digital and was positive 2-3 weeks I was waiting for a month for a midwife appointment.. so yesterday I started bleeding went today for a scan and they go to me no sac .. but can see a cyst or a sac outside the womb so therefore she did another test there and it was negative .. she said if it was positive it would have been ectopic pregnancy but because it was negative she said it's miscarriage. Has anyone else been through this as am so confused ?? As some saying maybe I wasn't pregnant at all and it gave me positive results

opinionss; Okayy so my friend textdd me lastnight saying how long do drugs stay in the placenta. i said 3 months or soo…

opinionss; Okayy so my friend textdd me lastnight saying how long do drugs stay in the placenta. i said 3 months or soo whyy?? she said because i slipped up last month when my grandpa diedd. i said on what? weed or dope/meth? she said dope. im like what the fuckkk morgann. Emma can taste that shit. I need to mention she is due in march. she said what will happen i said if they test your placenta they come right then and take your baby. i don't know how true this is but this is what i have heard. she said will devin be able to take the baby then soon ill get her back. i said probably idk he doesn't have a good living environment he might not even he the dad and hes a former addict as well. shes like im freaking out blah blah. honestly this makes me sick to my stomach where writing this i am in tears when she first found out she was pregnant like she even says i was more of a mother to the baby then she ever was i made sure she ate good i took her to hospital sometimes because she would stall on finding a obgyn. she never went to prenatal checkups. she kept lying to me telling me she is clean. but turn to find out she "slipped" up last month. im so upset and dont know whether to stay out of it or call cps on her. this is a tough decision now that im a mommy i cant imagine how people can be so selfish. i tried for my baby for two years and she knew this when she found out she was pregnant still smoking and shooting up that dumb shit. i told her she is taking her blessing for granted when there is people who cant have babies or have a hard time getting pregnant. what should i do? Call or stay out of it?