Husbands kicked out... So my husband has this noise he makes due to his allergies...Grrr I'm so…
Husbands kicked out...
So my husband has this noise he makes due to his allergies...Grrr I'm so frustrated with him right now. He gets a tickle in his throat and does this noise to scratch it PROBLEM IS he is waking up the baby long before she's due to wake. I went to bed at 11:30 cause I had to pick up my daughter from work at 11. He starts this noise and woke her up at 2:10am last night and she wasn't due to nurse until 4:30,,,,,so I put her beside me in bed which is an indicator to him GO SLEEP ON THE COUCH and now she's awake and she fusses on and off every few minutes right until 4:18 to which I feed her then. Then guess what I finally get to sleep at 4:45 and his alarm starts ringing at 6am. I took it and threw it between the mattress cause I don't know how the darn thing shuts off. So I'm not talking to him this morning just not in the mood, I think he'll have to sleep in the couch for a while so I can get some sleep.....
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My husband sleeps in our son's bedroom, and my baby sleeps with me in our bed. I hate this situation and it wasn't this way with our first but babies are different and I can't get her to sleep anywhere except by my side.
However, i get what you mean it happened with me either his alarm wakes the baby or him snoring so loud and wake me and my baby that's why he moved to our son's bedroom. We mommies barely find time to sleep so we can't handle any other interruption?? just keep telling myself it's temporary
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You sound like me. DH always seems to start snoring whenever I'm trying to get Jack back down after a feed -_- And his alarm clock goes off at 5 am every morning and he NEVER Hears it. Plus he sets multiple ones, so they go off a few minutes after each other and he keeps it on the loudest setting. So it always wakes Jack up. I'm not ready to start my day at 5am! And I've tried the whole- you wake the baby, you settle him back down. But he always says he can't because he will be late for work. ?
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I have a house rule "you wake him you take him". What an ass bag!
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Lol. Totally get how you feel. My hubby snores and if he wakes bubs up b4 their wake time he'll cop a mouthful from me a d i tell him to put bubs to sleep which he can't do if its time for a feed.
If he won't help put toddler to bed and ends up a distraction i threaten him with sleeping alone downstairs indefinitely which he isn't happy so he learns to put her to bed and not snore and wake up bubs. If he gets noisy snoring i wake him up again.. its like a v8 engine sometimes even his son from exwife is the same. I was like geez
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Lol. My Hubby does the exact same thing. He actually uses my cough pillow I got at the hospital after my c section. It works so well.
I love MrsKFigs rule of "You wake em' you take em'". But I'm a SAHM, so I'm on duty all week. And Hubs takes him all day Sunday.
Sunday is Mama's day.