Anyone else too tired for sex? Or just me....

Yes!!! I'm so tired when 10 comes Around

Every night my hubby is trying to have sex and I'm so tired and still sore from csection

He tells me I don't love him and it's always some excuse but I'm just so tired and have 0% sex drive

We've done it 4x. I consider that quite an accomplishment. Fur example right now I'm exhausted just feeding the baby. I'm going to sleep after. Zzz ?

I really feel for you ladies. I still have not been cleared by my doc because my stitches have yet to dissolve...I go back next week (8weeks pp) and my fiancé is dying to have sex and I'm not looking forward to it. In fact, I'm scared of the pain. I had a horrible recovery (2 separate tears) and stitches that have taken FOREVER to dissolve.

We still haven't had any sexy time 9weeks on!! I'm ebf so all my efforts are with baby..he gets it and doesn't give me a hard time at all bless him but that makes me feel more guilty xx

I have a loving husband but now he's really pissing me off. Baby was up every 2.5 hours last night and if he gives me a hard time over no sex I'm gonna lose it. They know we're up through the night while they're snoozing-what the heck, have a heart! Sometimes their need for sex can become so selfish.

My husband asks all the time. I am just not ready yet almost 8w PP just have no desire yet?? i tell him i am also still sore down there sometimes so i know im not fully recovered. Plus i have a 15m old and then my newbie? rough times of no sleep at all. Seriously if he keeps asking ill loose my brain lol. He can wait till i am 100% ready

I though I was the only one that hadn't done it yet. I don't even know when or where. If I dint have a baby attached to me then I'm passed out or doing laundry ....

No you're not the only one...the thought doesn't even cross my mind...no interest what so ever as yet lol...poor hubby but all good things come to those who wait!! xx

Yeah well my husbands cranky this morning-if he mentions anything about not getting any last night I'm gonna lose my cool.

I thought I was the only one who didn't have sex yet. I told him honey you not having sex is my least problem. I think it's a selfish thing from his side. I'm dealing with occasional depression, struggling with breastfeeding, dealing with my 5 year old son who is sad because he thinks his mom is sad, beside sleep deprivation.

I don't say my husband is not cooperative, he is helping me a lot but I'm dealing with things he can't help me with like BF.

Also I have 0% sex drive

Me too. We had this same conversation about how he feels like I no longer love him or find him attractive now cause I never initiate anymore. I am just sooo tired but I don't want him to feel that way cause it's not true at all. I decided to nap ahead of time one night, even though I wasn't super tired and then made a point of initiating things. I know I can't do this always but it went a long way in helping our relationship. We talked about how I still feel towards him but no words are as good as actions honestly.

Yeah I think if I had an opportunity to rest during the day then I could initiate at night. He also suggested that to me lol. I just wish he'd understand that I'm trying my best, being patient with my other two young ones, raising a teen so lots of drama, caring for a newborn and managing activities and a home and then I have him thinking I don't love him because I'm tired and pass out in seconds.

Our conversation a few days ago:

Me- "we need to stop coming to bed so tired, it's ruining our sex life."

Him- "Im not that tired when I come to bed, so its not ruining my sex life."

Me- "Well I'm always exhausted, so therefore it is ruining your sex life."

Him- "True!"

We used to go to bed together. But now, I'm wayyyyy beyond ready for bed, when he's not. So it's been a damper.

Way too tired getting up all night, no time to rest during the day as I have 2 older ones home all day, plus all the household chores, no desire to have sex, still tender down there.

Gave in once and it did not feel good. I swear I could feel where I had stitches. Still sore.

Oh and I love the "we never have sex". We have 3 children, so we obviously do!

Oh yes girl. I'm the same way. It's been weeks but I'm exhausted. Two kids under two is no joke!

I'm so glad I'm not he only one that has not had sex yet! I'm tired all the time, and our 4 year old still sneaks into our room and sleeps on in the floor most nights. My poor husband, he understands, but I can see he is very deprived!

Me! lol I just go straight to bed and I knock out ? he comes and looks for me but says that I sleep to fast lol