Oh and all I do all day is play with and care for the babies. I don't get anything done around the house at all. Its a good day if I can get the dishwasher unloaded haha
I felt overwhelmed on Tuesday night when my 6 year old wanted my attention and I was feeding the baby. My husband called just at that moment and I let him have it. Needless to say he came home 10 minutes later. If
We are having our ups and downs. Some days all I feel like I do is feed and diaper children! My newborn spends a lot of time I her swing too. Which I hate. I think that is one of the reasons I am slower to bond with her than my first. My first also has gotten to watch more tv than ever which I also hate. Basically taking it hour by hour and day by day over here!!!
I’m going from 2 to 3 kids now and recovering from my c section. I’m a little over 1 week PP and I feel pretty okay but still sore and trying to take it easy. It’s really hard not being able to do everything I was doing and not able to do certain things for myself. I feel like my husband is overwhelmed and kinda resenting me for it. I just feel like I’m not good enough as a mother right now.
I feel like I'm paying more attention to my 2 seel86gn ker than my 3 year old as tAnd he baby will not let me put him down. My toddler often plays by herself and it saddens me at times. So I've been trying my best to share my time equally.
I'm definitely finding it tough! I feel like I'm in charge of the baby and my husband is in charge of my 2 year old but it breaks my heart to not spend more time with her. I'm trying to carve out time for special projects with her and hoping to introduce a bottle to the newborn this weekend so I can have a little freedom to take the toddlers out to do things. Ill also admit she's had more screen time the past 2 weeks than she's probably had in the past 6 months but hey whatever it takes to survive the day right?
Yes it’s been challenging. I’m so happy that my mom was able to stay with us for the first three days chichi helped so much at getting some sense to this Mom of two. My hubby also took time off but he’s mostly just trying his best to entertain my toddler while I feed baby girl. I try and spend a lot of time with my son when baby girl is sleeping. I feel like I don’t stop
It’s been challenging at times since my 2y/o is wanting more attention. She loves her baby sister but she cries a lot and needs held a ton. Also we were breastfeeding which was taking almost 2 hours at a time because I wasn’t getting enough supply. So I had to give that up because it was almost impossible with my 2y/o. She has been getting an attitude with my husband and I and acting out a bit as well. I’m just glad she loves her sister and isn’t mean to her!
It's been rough around here. The first week home was emotional for me and for my 3 year old because he missed me and wanted me and I felt like all I was doing was nursing the baby and now the second week home my toddler is sick so we have had to separate the two which means I am even more unavailable so honestly it has been hell. But I know and am hopeful that it will get better soon. I'm exhausted and whenever the baby naps I hang out with my 3 yo.
M_Joelle·
Oh and all I do all day is play with and care for the babies. I don't get anything done around the house at all. Its a good day if I can get the dishwasher unloaded haha
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I felt overwhelmed on Tuesday night when my 6 year old wanted my attention and I was feeding the baby. My husband called just at that moment and I let him have it. Needless to say he came home 10 minutes later. If
When we are both home it's smooth sailing.
deleted-user·
We are having our ups and downs. Some days all I feel like I do is feed and diaper children! My newborn spends a lot of time I her swing too. Which I hate. I think that is one of the reasons I am slower to bond with her than my first. My first also has gotten to watch more tv than ever which I also hate. Basically taking it hour by hour and day by day over here!!!
deleted-user·
I’m going from 2 to 3 kids now and recovering from my c section. I’m a little over 1 week PP and I feel pretty okay but still sore and trying to take it easy. It’s really hard not being able to do everything I was doing and not able to do certain things for myself. I feel like my husband is overwhelmed and kinda resenting me for it. I just feel like I’m not good enough as a mother right now.
deleted-user·
I feel like I'm paying more attention to my 2 seel86gn ker than my 3 year old as tAnd he baby will not let me put him down. My toddler often plays by herself and it saddens me at times. So I've been trying my best to share my time equally.
deleted-user·
I'm definitely finding it tough! I feel like I'm in charge of the baby and my husband is in charge of my 2 year old but it breaks my heart to not spend more time with her. I'm trying to carve out time for special projects with her and hoping to introduce a bottle to the newborn this weekend so I can have a little freedom to take the toddlers out to do things. Ill also admit she's had more screen time the past 2 weeks than she's probably had in the past 6 months but hey whatever it takes to survive the day right?
deleted-user·
Yes it’s been challenging. I’m so happy that my mom was able to stay with us for the first three days chichi helped so much at getting some sense to this Mom of two. My hubby also took time off but he’s mostly just trying his best to entertain my toddler while I feed baby girl. I try and spend a lot of time with my son when baby girl is sleeping. I feel like I don’t stop
deleted-user·
It’s been challenging at times since my 2y/o is wanting more attention. She loves her baby sister but she cries a lot and needs held a ton. Also we were breastfeeding which was taking almost 2 hours at a time because I wasn’t getting enough supply. So I had to give that up because it was almost impossible with my 2y/o. She has been getting an attitude with my husband and I and acting out a bit as well. I’m just glad she loves her sister and isn’t mean to her!
deleted-user·
It's been rough around here. The first week home was emotional for me and for my 3 year old because he missed me and wanted me and I felt like all I was doing was nursing the baby and now the second week home my toddler is sick so we have had to separate the two which means I am even more unavailable so honestly it has been hell. But I know and am hopeful that it will get better soon. I'm exhausted and whenever the baby naps I hang out with my 3 yo.