in a relationship but doing it alone
in a relationship but doing it alone
At this point I feel like I'm about to have a panic attack. I have a 1year old that act like a terrible 3 year old. I am alone ALL day with her because her father works (8hrs only a day 6 days a week) but when I ask for help he tells me I work your home all day you don't do nothing. I'm at my breaking point & about to call it quits. In laws clame that they are always there for the baby or have her all the time but the only time they ask for her is onces a month WHEN there's a kids party besides that I look for them so they can see the baby. I'm so close to giving up & actually do it alone
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Hun you already are in many ways. He sounds like a POS
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Your already a single mom, the only difference would be your not catering to a selfish pos as well...
I'd leave put him on child support, get on any assistance you can..
You can definitely do this, you don't need your child thinking this is how you treat the women you claim to love, mother of your children...
He not a man...
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When I had my 1sr, My dh ever understood what I did all day either. I did unfortunately get the "you're at home all day doing nothing" while we had arguments.... then we did a switch when my 2nd was 9 months; I went to work and he stayed home....he took care of a 2yo and a 1 yo for 1 entire year while I did the full time work thing .. he got a CLEAR understanding as to what I did all day, and how cleaning, cooking and taking care of a child (or children) is not easy....
That cleared up any and all issues we had on the matter. I don't think guys fully understand it all. Maybe help him understand, maybe get a part time or casual job so you can step out of the house once in a while and leave the baby with him? Would that be an option? You get some extra spending money, some time by yourself and baby and dad can have some time, and dad can gain some clarity?