Just having a pity party

It is ok to have a pity party. I am doing the same. Had a miscarriage today. My husband is out of the country and I feel all alone.

I'm so sorry for your loss as well ? I wish none of us had to go through this. It's so not fair.

I'm with you. I had my d & c 8 days ago and still bleeding. I was doing good emotionally the last few days but the bleeding picked up today and I started thinking about how far along I would be now. I just want to try again because I dont want september to come and not have a baby to look forward to. I think my babys due date will be reallt hard for me. and my husband doesnt want to try again right away.

I completely understand. It's hard seeing so many pregnancy announcements and momma's having their cute little babies. I'm happy for them but at the same time feel so jealous. I would be finding out my baby's gender this month, but instead I'm empty. ? So sorry for your loss ❤

I am so very sorry for your loss. I totally get it though! A coworker and I both had a D&C a week apart and then another coworker announced her pregnancy, which her due date is within just a few days of when mine was supposed to be. Now my coworker who had the D&C is pregnant and actually shares a due date with my sister-in-law. Weird coincidences but I still can't help my jealous feelings.

Can I join your party?! Today sucked for me too. Friends having babies, friends announcing babies! I am completely and incredibly happy for them but you can't help thinking it should be you too!

I'll join that party. Why does it seem like everyone's pregnant right now? And having babies?

I was also due August and still hcg elevated almost 4 weeks post D&C ?

It's been 6 weeks. I was supposed to b going into my 3rd trimester but I gave birth too soon. I gave birth to a lil angel she was just here for n hour. Today's been the hardest day in a while. Why me? I'm miserable I hate everyone n everything. I don't know anymore. I thought I had control...

Too bad we don't live close cause you would all be welcome to my pity party!! It does seem like everyone is pregnant. And those of you that have lost babies in the second and third trimester...I feel for you. I have no idea how I would handle it. It makes me scared to try again. I'm so terribly sorry for you all and I wish I could give you all big hugs. ??

There are 3 of my younger coworkers pregnant and 11 close in my town who have announced it, and its hard, i think when will it be my turn. I totally understand♡♡♡♡

I lost my August baby too. I'm on my way to a baby shower and I'm having a really hard time. No need to suck anything up. This is the worst feeling in the world. Let yourself be upset. I found myself feeling really guilty for not wanting to go today but you know what? It'd not freaking fair! This is hard and I'm going to allow myself to feel that way!

I do feel better knowing you guys are in the same situation as I am. Although I wish none of us had to be here. I just wish my bleeding would stop. It's turned red again just when I think it's gonna stop it starts up more. ?

Awe im sorry both of u. Prayers for a rainbow and especially for ur bleeding to stop. In Jesus name let your will be done and hear our requests! Please keep us updated. Ill keep u in my prayers and try to rest. I understand its scary and its ok to not want to be around babies. My olest nephew had a child his sr year with a young girl, and i they both were so young and not ready, i felt like it wasnt fair, but it was Gods plan and not mine. I hated buying stuff for the shower and giving up my stockpile, but i had too. Leaving things here was a constant reminder. Now my great neice is almost 2 and i wont bond with her. Its hard. Its not that i dont love her or etc i just want to cry everytime im around her its so selfish of me. Shes an innocent baby but it reminds me of what i lost. I pray daily for her and for me to desire to be in her life more. I now feel ok to buy and send her things but my husband goes and visits and i just avoid it. Its so not right of me, i know. Maybe ill quit when or if i carry this pregnancy. I just get so emotional. Its on my husbands side. We have been together 5 years. I love my nephew and his daughter but im missing out on her being little because i cant get over my own loss and now his sisters 2 who are both in highschool are pregnant. She was so upset and tried to hide it from me i think. Its hard, but i need to be more adult after 2 years and be a better aunt. So i totally understand. Im not sure how long youll feel miserable but its OK to grieve and for as long as U need♡