Yep!

Seriously. ?

Like your can have a baby if u stop trying?

Or when people say "stop trying and you'll have a baby." Yeah.. ok. ?

Yep! Well meaning (I tell myself that anyway) people who say 'just relax and it will happen for you'. Oh, ok. Sure! And another friend who knows of our struggles and recently had her first actually said to me: 'Are you sure you're even ready for a baby? It's really hard work you know. You should be glad of a lie in.' I had to bit my lip to make sure I didn't shout at her to shut the f up with that one!

I hate that!

I hear this all the rime. I'm a labor and delivery nurse. Have been trying for 10 plus years... this and the baby's that are born addicted are almost to much to bare.

This is what my sister said to me after having my 7 year old niece tell me my sister was pregnant. So hurtful!

Lol yep!

Or the friend who accidentally got pregnant with twins and knows all of your struggles sending texts that say:

" me: yeah my last IUI didn't work, going to be drinking tonight

Her: well if it's any consolation, I'm huge and swollen and really want a drink.

Me: no it's not a consolation at all, pretty sure I'd give anything to be where you are right now."

Yeah those texts are awesome!