Another month goes by...
I feel like time is just passing and we are getting nowhere. Failed FET in July, failed IVF in Oct, Failed IUI in Nov & this month's IUI was a waste too. I've now read that clomid can give you false positive opk's. Which is what I think happened to me & I actually just ovulated yesterday. DH has left on a ski trip and there was no time to BD either. Basically another wasted month. I'm sure I'll have to take next month off due to cysts again. The frustration is REAL!?
Thank you usound! I'm still going, lol. Hope your pregnancy is going well! Can't wait to see what you're having!
I'm sorry hun. For me too, trying for the second was rough. The first was too, took us four transfers, but for the second, it was over a year until we finally thought our luck was turning. For me, I just kept thinking, my daughter is another month older, she'll be "this old" when I have another if I get pregnant now. I felt the time crunch in a huge way! It just sucks. I know your luck is going to turn soon, it has to!
I'm sorry Amanda. I hope you are cyst free and can try again. I've been having a dull ache all morning, so thinking I definitely have another cyst.?
Thanks brandee. I planned on doing a trigger, but didn't because I started to surge early. I just talked to my dr and she feels confident that I was ovulating on the day of IUI because she could see my follicles filling with fluid. She said worst case scenario, if I did ovulate Sunday, that the way the sperm are "washed" they should live up to 72 hours.??
I'm a control freak! The whole IUI/IVF drives me crazy because I can't control anything. That's why I try to be organized! lol I hope your doctor can easy your mind. FX you did ovulate early this cycle and get your BFP. If not maybe think about using a trigger shot next time so you know you are going to ovulate.
Also you had 2 mature follicles I bet you did ovulate!
Thank you girls. I'm waiting for his call back. I know you all feel my frustration! I really feel like patience is my worst attribute & I am really being tested, lol.
I'm sorry you are going through all the disappointment. I just think it's so unfair we have to go through all the infertility issues. I keep thinking God bless so many woman that doesn't want any kids. I know a few of them that did abortion and after all they still get pregnant at no time if they want and we spend all that money, time, dreams, pain and heartbreaking. Anyways I just want you to know you are not alone. I did 1 iui and miscarriage and did 3 Ivf's that failed. I just gave up trying with my own eggs. I can't keep spending so much money because my heath insurance doesn't cover fertility treatment. I'm now considering donor eggs and if everything goes well I'll transfer sometime around April.
Sorry you're going through this ..hugs...hang in there