Can we talk about sex for a minute
Can we talk about sex for a minute
Before pregnancy SO and I have always been very adventurous when it comes to sex. We both are into what most people consider be taboo. We both enjoyed porn and many other things. During pregnancy I was on restriction for sex. And at a certain point I just wasn't interested, no big deal. But now two months pp I'm starting to finally get interested again but I'm finding out that the things that I used to be into are no longer turn ons. I feel like I've had a complete flip on what I'm into. SO of course is still into the same things and I miss being into those fetishes that we shared. Is it normal to have a complete interest change like that? Has anyone gone through this and in time gone back to what they used to be into?
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It can take awhile to really find "you" again after baby. It may not be that you don't like those things anymore, maybe you just don't like them *right now*.
And would your SO be cool with adding to your fetish bag? Could you still get into his likes even though they aren't totally yours?
I'm sure you know the most important aspect is open communication and getting out there where you are in your likes, dislikes, etc. :)
Nyramak·
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I'm all for doing what he likes, it used to be what I like. I haven't talked to him about this yet. I wanted to get opinions first. Before we started trying this was something we discussed, that it may change our sexual preferences. Though I didn't think it would actually happen. In most instances I just want to give right now rather than receive. I don't want to be touched right now unless it's cuddling. It's hard because I really want to be into it again, not just for him but for me. He's never been pushy when it comes to me getting back into it after birth. He's been so patient and content with me 'leading' when it comes to getting back to us. I just wish it would happen sooner.