Feeling useless With all this pain I can't help but feel useless. I still have a decent to do list…
Feeling useless
With all this pain I can't help but feel useless. I still have a decent to do list to get done before the 29th (when I get induced). My poor husband works all day and then comes home to work for me. I feel bad for him but it's only temporary and I have no idea what else to do. If I don't have him to help me I will pretty much stay in bed all day and that's not much comfortable since I'm in pain/uncomfortable. Some days are worse than others but it's barely 5am here and I'm already all flared up with pain. I feel like hip is going to dislocate. I barely made it down and up the stairs for a snack and sprite to help with indigestion since tums weren't helping. I feel like I just want to break down and cry. ?
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All I can say is, one day your husband will need you and I can tell you will be there for him to do what he can't. That's part of what makes relationships work. The weight isn't always even whether it be one is pregnant, sick, or hurt. Just be sure he knows how much you appreciate all he's doing and one day you will reciprocate :)
Nicole R. ·
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Most definitely haha you're so right! We've been together for 7 years. Definitely had my share of carrying his weight. ;) and there will come a time again.
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I feel the same way though, I feel like I make him do everything! So I've started to take care of the dogs again atleast four days out of the week . I hate it and can't even bend to feed them but I just feel useless not doing anything and just in pain all the time laying down. 9 months is not pretty lol
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I feel this way now at 35 weeks. Not really because of pain but energy level. My husband has been trying to finish the remodel of our bathroom before baby arrives and I can't help out like I usually do. Honestly like 10 minutes of painting is exhausting and I have to rest. Also can't really do yard work or clean up after our animals. I feel pretty awful about it :(
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My hubbi and I have been together for almost 5 years now. And he keeps telling me I don't act pregnant. I do so much...even tho I hurt and I'm exhausted and 35 weeks pregnant... I tell myself I need to do it myself.. just so I known its getting done how I want it. I'd hate for him to do it then my hormones b**** him out haha. So I do what needs to be done then I don't feel guilty for taking a nap. :)