Prayers and advice

Ladies, I know the devil likes to throw stones in our way of being secure and happy. Well, for the past year I have been getting nothing but negative comments from both friends strangers and family about how my 2 year old daughter will grow up to despise me and now that I better hope this baby my third is not another girl because then I will really be in for it. A few even went so far to say all girls are daddy's girls and you won't have a bond with them, you will only have good bonds with boys and teenage girls will make your life a misery :( ladies I been trying my best to ignore this negativity I just don't know where it comes from or why so many people seem to feel this way. Being in a vulnerable state with overcoming depression this gets really hard on me. I need words of wisdom, encouragement and prayers. Thank you ladies.