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Rachel Lemmerman
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feeling the pressure not to gain..

feeling the pressure not to gain..

I was 207 when I got pregnant and dropped to 190 during my first trimester due to morning sickness.. I made myself a personal goal of not gaining more than 30lbs my entire pregnancy, which I thought was reasonable and healthy.. I had my Drs appointment at 21 weeks yesterday and I have gained 4lbs back in 3 months, which he says is great!(baby is healthy weighing 14oz) He told me he only wants me to gain a total of 20lbs my entire pregnancy! That's 16lbs over the next 19 weeks, is that reasonable? My bmi has me listed as obese, but I am just a curvy size 14..

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?