Fiancé problems I’m sorry in advance for venting, I have no one to talk to and I never post things…

Fiancé problems

I’m sorry in advance for venting, I have no one to talk to and I never post things like this but I need to vent. Yesterday we did about 5 hours of things with my family that my fiancé didn’t want to do, but he ended up getting to drink a bit and had a good time. I told him if he went with me yesterday that today could be his day and he didn’t have to do anything. We have a almost 17 week old so while he was laying in bed watching movies I wanted him to watch our baby so I could clean the house, get laundry done, and get us somewhat packed for our trip. He decided taking care of our daughter wasn’t what he wanted to do today and wasn’t his job today so he threw a fit. He called me names that shouldn’t be repeated, told me I was lazy, a moron, selfish and worthless, that he hates me, yelled at me, was very mean to me, and just made me feel terrible all around. I ended up cleaning the whole house, packing the 3 of us almost all the way, doing 5 loads of laundry, and taking care of our daughter while he was mean to me all day. I feel like if he wants to be a dad he should want to take care of and play with our daughter all the time, not just when it is convenient for him. Sorry again for venting and for the long post. I have no one to talk to and venting helped a little bit.