TTC with a toddler I'm just wondering how any of you ladies do it if you're currently TTCing and…

TTC with a toddler

I'm just wondering how any of you ladies do it if you're currently TTCing and have a toddler or younger kids already. I have a two year old daughter who is very active and jumps on me quite a bit when she's playing around. I feel like every month after I know I've ovulated I always get extra cautious about protecting myself *just in case* I turn out to be pregnant. But then I end up feeling so guilty later on because I wasn't playing as much as I usually do with her for the sake of another child that didn't even exist. ? I've had two miscarriages within the last 6 months and I just feel so cautious with everything and maybe I shouldn't be. Anyone else feel like this? I'm wondering too if a toddler would even be strong enough to harm a pregnancy at that point. Sorry for rambling but I'd love to hear what everyone has to say about this ?