church mass with toddler

Its been so long i haven't been as i just recently got my P. And my husband never took me there as he alone has not been attending mass for years. How did u manage with a toddler. Dean now is very sooky and like i have describe before he started showing attitudes and tantrums also i cant put him in stroller or hell just scream. Feels like i cant focus on d mass if that's d case. Do u attend mass or waited til ur lo are more behave?