I don't know but will probably be asking the same question at some point. My hubby says no more after this, I wanted 3 and if this is another boy I'm going to really struggle with no more!! But the most important thing is loving the children we have and being grateful but I do feel for you xx
I feel bad for feeling like this as there are people out there who can't carry children but this feeling is horrible! I do know this feeling will never go even if I were to have more, I think il always want more! :( xx
I hate being pregnant but love having babies! I feel bad for how much I moan when I have a lot of friends who can't and think shut up and be grateful! But it's so easier said than done xxx
I have 2 healthy children. A girl then a boy,but I had so many problems with my son (2nd baby) that we decided no more. It wud b selfish for me to try for another knowing ahead wot problem cud occur,wen I sed this to my mum she said well ask if u can be sterilised!!!
I was like noooo.. That really affected me,even tho I don't want anymore (well that's wot I'm telling myself lol) I don't think I cud get sterilised,just Incase,u know x
My first was an ok pregnancy he grew small and only had a two vessel cord but ok my 2nd was complicated I had low plaitlets and my girl has a heart condition and had to have heart surgery! I know that there's now a chance I could go on to have another with a heart condition too but it doesn't stop the feelings. I asked my oh today if he would consider the snip as he is the one who said no more! And he said no way he's not having an operation! I just think why should it be down to only me to prevent pregnancy! I do think no matter how many
Kids I had I'd want more! I know this feeling is gonna get stronger and stronger as my youngest gets older x
I had a few tears reading this ? the ache is real and I know it's never gonna go! I thinks it's hard cos you always wish you had cherished the last pregnancy more and the newborn stage longer I always wish I had stressed less and made the most of it all knowing it was the last! My oh even said today make the most of life! My life is my kids! And I want loads! ??
I feel like this too, I have a boy and girl and my oh says no more why do we need anymore. I've always wanted 3, so I need to talk him round haha.. Not yet though! X
Omg I know this feeling all to well. I had my third 9 months ago but I know once he's 2/3 the feelings will return but deffo not having any more and it's heart breaking.
I am done after this i do not care lol. This is my 3rd ive lost 3. The one last yr nearly kilt me was 14 weeks. Anyway me and pregnancy dont go its like my body rejects it and makes me so ill. I have a 14 yr old and a 2 yr old. Had my appendix removed with the 1st at 6 months. 2nd i had gall bladder removed at 14weeks. This one hasnt been as bad but have been in with stones in live and bile duct. Got really bad scaitica and dpd wer my pelvis spilt and 3rd degree tear. And im on crutches again coz i can barely move. Always said im not havin any kids after im 35 coz say the time u get preggers and it i aint having an 18yr old and a new born no way lol.
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I don't know but will probably be asking the same question at some point. My hubby says no more after this, I wanted 3 and if this is another boy I'm going to really struggle with no more!! But the most important thing is loving the children we have and being grateful but I do feel for you xx
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I feel bad for feeling like this as there are people out there who can't carry children but this feeling is horrible! I do know this feeling will never go even if I were to have more, I think il always want more! :( xx
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I hate being pregnant but love having babies! I feel bad for how much I moan when I have a lot of friends who can't and think shut up and be grateful! But it's so easier said than done xxx
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Omg I feel like this.
I have 2 healthy children. A girl then a boy,but I had so many problems with my son (2nd baby) that we decided no more. It wud b selfish for me to try for another knowing ahead wot problem cud occur,wen I sed this to my mum she said well ask if u can be sterilised!!!
I was like noooo.. That really affected me,even tho I don't want anymore (well that's wot I'm telling myself lol) I don't think I cud get sterilised,just Incase,u know x
Shellie·
My first was an ok pregnancy he grew small and only had a two vessel cord but ok my 2nd was complicated I had low plaitlets and my girl has a heart condition and had to have heart surgery! I know that there's now a chance I could go on to have another with a heart condition too but it doesn't stop the feelings. I asked my oh today if he would consider the snip as he is the one who said no more! And he said no way he's not having an operation! I just think why should it be down to only me to prevent pregnancy! I do think no matter how many
Kids I had I'd want more! I know this feeling is gonna get stronger and stronger as my youngest gets older x
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I'm not religious personally but I saw this the other day and found it incredibly beautiful. I think this may toucj on what your saying :)
http://sarahbessey.com/learning-live-ache/
Shellie·
I had a few tears reading this ? the ache is real and I know it's never gonna go! I thinks it's hard cos you always wish you had cherished the last pregnancy more and the newborn stage longer I always wish I had stressed less and made the most of it all knowing it was the last! My oh even said today make the most of life! My life is my kids! And I want loads! ??
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I've just had baby #3 and am already dying for another! But I know a 4th would be our last! xx
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Ive always said I want 4 but oh said today he deffo doesn't want another and I've got two now X
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I feel like this too, I have a boy and girl and my oh says no more why do we need anymore. I've always wanted 3, so I need to talk him round haha.. Not yet though! X
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Omg I know this feeling all to well. I had my third 9 months ago but I know once he's 2/3 the feelings will return but deffo not having any more and it's heart breaking.
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I am done after this i do not care lol. This is my 3rd ive lost 3. The one last yr nearly kilt me was 14 weeks. Anyway me and pregnancy dont go its like my body rejects it and makes me so ill. I have a 14 yr old and a 2 yr old. Had my appendix removed with the 1st at 6 months. 2nd i had gall bladder removed at 14weeks. This one hasnt been as bad but have been in with stones in live and bile duct. Got really bad scaitica and dpd wer my pelvis spilt and 3rd degree tear. And im on crutches again coz i can barely move. Always said im not havin any kids after im 35 coz say the time u get preggers and it i aint having an 18yr old and a new born no way lol.