What do I do??? As you know from a previous post I've not heard from my sons dad for a few months.…

I'd send him a message saying Rhys has asked to speak to you he's worried you think he doesn't like you, I feel like you need to work on your bond with him as there really isn't one at the min xx

I agree with jellybean I would give him a message and say to him xxx

So I just went upstairs and said what made you ask about your dad. He said 'remember when I said that my dad doesn't like me cos he thinks I don't like him cos I don't ring him' I said to Rhys it's not your fault at all! You are a child and it's down to your dad to call you he's a grown up he has a phone you don't! But you can call him when ever you want! It's not your fault you know that yeh he said yeh. So I said do you want me to text your dad he goes naa. I said do you wanna call him tomorrow and talk to him he said naa I said are you sure he said yep! So I said ok go to sleep and think about it and let me know tomorrow if you wanna talk to him. So what do I do now? Rhys is 7 nearly 8 by the way x

Even though he's said he's ok deep down he probably still wants contact with his dad. I would text even though you don't want to for your son xx

If I were you I would still contact his dad anyway even if tomorrow Rhys says he doesn't want u to.The only reason I say that is although he's dad sounds like a complete Pratt and probably doesn't deserve you contacting him,it was obviously playing on your sons mind today for him to bring it up and probably will again.i don't know the details but I'm sure you have probably contacted him countless times for your son and like u say you was waiting to see how long it took for him to bother contacting your son and it's obviously been months which is disgusting. but I would phone him/text him just to tell him what a prick he is not making any contact with his own son,what Rhys said today and try get some sort of bond going between them.

bless him to think that his dad thinks he doesn't like him.

Sorry I'm rambling lol I'm basically saying don't do it for that idiot do it for ur son!your boy is lucky to have u by the sounds of it xx

I'd still contact him tbh Hun as Rhys is prob saying no as a kind of cover up because you said his dad should be contacting him he's probably thinking oh maybe I shouldn't be ringing if that makes sense all though we as adults know what you mean he might have took it differently xx