He broke my heart! I've been a little blue lately (understandably so). But my 3yo DS broke my heart…
He broke my heart!
I've been a little blue lately (understandably so). But my 3yo DS broke my heart a little today. He was playing around and I told him not to jump on me. And he asked "cuz the baby?" I didn't know what to say for a second there. Then just said the baby had to go back to heaven right now. He looked sad and concerned then said "I want another baby. I choose another baby brother". I know kiddo, mommy wants one too. I couldn't help but cry yet again. Poor kid thought he'd done something wrong. I thought at least having lo's would make this loss easier, it really hasn't. I'm a mess.
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I'm sorry ? be strong for him.
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Ohhh ?
*hugs* I'm praying for you, and your sweet family.
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Last time we miscarried my 2 year old was so excited, would talk about "Bebe" to any random stranger. Now when we talk about this baby he hushes us because he thinks this baby will go away too. It made me incredibly sad because I had been so selfish to not explain what happened to him. After talking he's more excited now but he gets very mad when my husband tries to hug me and tells his daddy not to squeeze the baby. It doesn't get easier, just better to accept. Hugs darlin ?