Just Be Happy Dang it!! So I find myself being so anxious about this pregnancy! I've had two…

It’s always difficult to focus on the good after going through so much pain and heartache. I understand as I lost two babies in the second trimester and had to have surgery. There was so much damage and scaring they said I would never conceive not even with ivf. It broke my heart to say the least. When I was pregnant with my son (naturally pregnant!) every little thing freaked me out. I tried to stay calm but it was nerve racking and I had a very difficult delivery on top of that where we almost lost him. This time around I just concentrate on the good and think positive thoughts when my mind just goes towards thinking the worst. I also think about all that I have gone through and see my son. I thank God for getting pregnant (naturally yay, it’s a big deal for me after everything) and concentrate on the miracle of having another baby. It’s not easy because the mind does like to go to the dark place but I try to refocus and sing to calm myself down. God is good!!!

I feel the same way. I have had two miscarriages this year and then learned I have a genetic abnormality which makes me have a much higher risk of miscarriage each time. I just found out this week I’m pregnant again so unfortunately I don’t have much advice for you. I’m just trying to take it one day at a time and not to extrapolate too much into the future. Hugs.

Thanks ladies! I am very sorry to hear about your losses as well. I am glad to have forums like these so that we can offer each other support. Hugs to you both ?

I am feeling a lot better today especially since I finally told my mom and sister. Here's to a healthy happy 8 months to us all!! ????

Yes. I feel like my miscarriage sucked all the joy out of pregnancy for me. I’m so scared. I can’t wait until our first ultrasound. Hoping it will make me feel a little better (if everything is ok) ??????

After two miscarriages I definitely know how you feel. This is my final go at it so I’m going to enjoy everything I can and if it doesn’t work out it’s sad but okay. I was blessed with a 5 year old son. Praying we all get our rainbow babies ?