It's so hard. I'm 21. Back living with my parents to help out because my mom had a stroke but now…
It's so hard.
I'm 21. Back living with my parents to help out because my mom had a stroke but now I'm also trying to take it easy because I'm pregnant with lupus. Everything is going good so far but still taking things easy. My baby's father has another baby on the way, she's due next month. Well apparently she was done here this week which is why he did a total 360 on me for these last past 4 days. Just June 2nd when I got an ultrasound & sent it to him we were doing good. Talking. Flirting. I thought we were going to be back on good terms. Not together. But good terms. But no. The next day he was a whole new person. I found out she was down here because my friend follows her on fb and sent me pics that she posted of him kissing on her stomach & stuff. So I call him to confront him & he says he has no respect for me. f*** me & a whole lot of mess. Doesn't care if I get an abortion and if I do take him to court he will win !!!!!!! It's just so hard not to stress. I don't want to be with him but at the same time that's my child's father & I do not want to bring my child into this world with the kind of relationship we have. & it just hurts to see how he treats his other bm compared too me. I feel like I'm not s*** to him & it gets so depressing at times. I just wish things were different !!!!
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Aaaawww babe I'm sorry to hear a that and honestly I don't know you very well but just to hear you have compassion for other people and your going to help take care of your mom even going though what your going through I can tell your way to good for him a ways and he's probably really immature you seem way to mature for him there is light at the end of the tunnel just learn to love yourself and continue loving and being there for your loved ones and karma I do strongly believe is a b**** and he will get what comes to him!
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Don't stress to much baby girl you have that precious baby to consider I know it's hard and you feel all alone I say pray and surround yourself with people that love you and imagine being the best mommy you can and how cute her/she will be many blessings he not worth your tears k.i.m. Focus on you and staying healthy and helping your mom as much as you can ????☀️?✌?️
deleted-user·
You don't need his negativity.... Especially right now... I think you should cut off communication with him for now, if not he will continue to make you miserable.
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just keep your head up mommas ! & do not worry about him at all ! I'm in the same situation , just roles reversed , my ex fiancé got someone prego and now she's due 2 months after me ? . I'm too much of a woman and love myself far too much to worry about what that boy does ! And since I don't pay him any mind and only respond to him when it has something to do with the baby he treats me like s*** . It hurt like hell at first , but now I find it quite amusing. don't even entertain him , because trust me the same things he tells you are the same things he tells her & when he gets tired of one he just goes back to the other , don't allow yourself to be an option to a little boy .
deleted-user·
Strong momma you are! Im 21 and about to become a single mother too-its a lot of hard work and strain-emotionallu, physically and financially..its hard work. But itll all be worth it :) try to take it easy and do not let him stress you out. If he had any damn dignity or respect he wouldn't be stressing you in your condition
Breauna Talley·
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Thank y'all so much. I tried to talk to him for the last time yesterday & it was a fail. If course. Y'all's advice really helped though because it's true. The same things he's telling me are the same things he's telling her & when he tired of me he'll act right with her & vice versa. & it actually is becoming amusing. He called his self yelling at me through a text the other day (all caps) talking crazy & I busted out laughing. Lol. I'm starting to realize he's not worth any of my time or concern. I'm pregnant !!! & happy about it. It's the best thing in the world too me I've always wanted to be a mommy and now I will be. Didn't expect it, but God seen fit that it was time so here we go !!!!!! Thank y'all again ????