ear piercing
What do you ladies think about getting your little one's ears pierced before they decide for themselves?
What kind of idiot gets a babies ears pierced at Claire's of all places? By a teenager whose had maybe 1 hour of training? Sheesh!
My family is Hispanic and it's traditional for us to pierce babies ears around 3 months after the 3 month shots. It's done in the office by the pediatrician himself who sterilizes and uses the infant hypo allergenic studs.
If you decide against doing it as a young infant then I would just wait until they are old enough to decide. As infants it's nothing for them just like a vaccine it stings for a moment and that's it. Neither of my girls messed with theirs or anything.
My daughter had hers done by her aunt in her home at 4 months. She's a piercer. She cried for like 2 minutes and was mainly mad because we were holding her still. She's two now and loves to pick out new earrings. My mom had mine done when I was two at Claire's. She waited until I could say yes lol like I knew what I was getting into at 2 years old... All the women in my family have them. It's normal for us so I'm sure my daughter won't care one bit and will be glad I got it over with.
I can't get the image of the little baby girl who must have been no older than 9 months screaming hysterically while being pinned still by her mother so the technician could pierce her ear out of my head. I witnessed this in Claire's
Accessories a few months ago. Ever since then I have honestly considered it a form of child abuse. If we were reported as stabbing our children with needles and piercing their flesh causing them to scream with pain AT HOME why should a shop be considered acceptable. I will not be inflicting this unnecessary torture on my little girl purely for superficial reasons. Im sorry if I offend anyone here, but if you'd seen this baby girl screaming, you'd understand. Child abuse is all it is.
I waited with both of my daughters till they made the decision to get them done and plan to do the same again. However, sensitive ears run in my family. They waited till 1st and 2nd grade to get them done and are in 3rd and 7th now and very rarely wear earrings. I don't judge people either way, I think it's just a matter of what you decide.
I'm doing it while my daughter is a baby. My husband wants me to wait till she's older and can make up her own mind but I told him no! I would rather do it now so that she doesn't feel the pain and I can take car of it rather than her deal with the pain and try to take care of them her self and risk infection.
I'm going to get my daughters done when she's a few months old. I begged my parents to let me get it done. They "waited" till i was "ready". Let me assure you no kid is ready for the pain of an ear piercing! It hurts whether your 3months old or 4years old like I was. They pierced one side, I screamed! Jumped off the chair and bolted lol literally through the shopping centre, my mum had to catch me lol! & hold me down for the other side. Do I consider that child abuse? No. Either way the pain isn't going to be pleasant. They can't do 1 ear and not the other. My one and a half year old son just had vaccinations. Didnt flinch, just pouted and held his arm. You don't know how your child will react but it doesn't mean we're child abusers!!