Need some support :( Me and my boyfriend (father of my third I'm 10weeks) aren't together anymore…
Need some support :(
Me and my boyfriend (father of my third I'm 10weeks) aren't together anymore because long story short I caught him talking to a girl he used to be "f*ck buddies" with and come to find out they have been hanging out 2 times a week and smoking he says it's innocent but I don't know anymore. She knows about me yet she still tried to text him things like your gonna have to give it to me again eventually. Well when I found it in his phone we got into it and I told him I didn't think we should be together any more he packed his things and left. Well since I have forgave him , but he's treating me like I'm nobody. Hardly come to see me and if he does it's like 10 at night and he just sleeps. Tells me he can't be with me right now cause he needs to get his mind right. Blah blah sounds like excuses. I could be being a b**** but I just feel like he literally doesn't want this & don't care anymore. I'm just hurt and venting I guess not really looking for advice cause it's so pointless anymore. I honestly don't know what I'm going to do, I finally thought this was it I found the one....and nope it's all over now.
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I'm so sorry your going through this. I'm sure it's hard. Try to stay busy. That always helps. You say this is ur third so maybe do extra fun stuff with the other two? hopefully you two can coparent together or maybe he's getting nervous about a baby and just panicking. Maybe he does just need some time. Guys take to these things differently than women. Good luck!!
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Hun, you are way too pretty to be staying with someone that doesn't treat you like a queen. Why did you go back to him after you left him before? On top of that were you trying to get pregnant after you two were going to call it quits the last time? Did you think he would stop cheating on you if you had another baby by him? I apologize if it seems like I'm bashing you, I'm really not. I'm just trying to help you see that you deserve sooooo much better Ally! Seriously you deserve someone that knows they want to spend the rest of their life with you and make you feel like you are the only woman he would ever lay eyes on. That can't wait to spend another minute with you. That tells you how pretty you are and how lucky he is to be with someone like you. Leave his pathetic butt and don't look back. There are so many guys out there. And don't think that nobody else would want you because you have kids, there are men that will treat your children like they are his own.