I'm sorry newly. I was rooting for you. I had 2MCs back to back as well. One at 10w and one at 5w. It was very overwhelming and honestly I know the magic number is 3 (with no clinical reason for it), but after my second I decided to see a reproductive endocrinologist. They've given me some piece of mind and I'm praying its worked. Maybe that is a next step if your insurance covers it?
I'm sorry. I had a mc in April and I just had one last week too. I kept asking myself this as well. How could I possibly be in that small of a group?!? I know it's not fair. I wish I could tell you something to make it better but so far I haven't found what to tell myself either.
I had a Mc in April and found out this Monday that this baby has passed also. Both at 8 weeks. I'm sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone.
I am in the 2% too but after my second one I took a couple months break and then got pregnant with my rainbow and now have a 9 month old beautiful baby boy!
I had 3 mcs in a row (5, 13, and 8 wks). I also felt so angry, frustrated, and confused why I had to be the 1 in 100. Now I'm pregnant again and 28 weeks. Hoping this will all work and we'll get our rainbow baby! Keep your head up and be patient with your emotions. It will work out for you and you'll appreciate it that much more!
Being in the 2% is s*** , just doesn't feel fair does it? I'm on pregnancy #3 now though, and we've nicknamed our baby 'Lucky' coz third time lucky right? Really hope that's the case for everyone in that 2%! Xx
Looks like I'm joining you. Same exact thing that happened to you has happened to me. Strong lines, then nothing. This is the worst feeling in the world.
I feel the same way. What percentage is ectopic pregnancies, I read like 1 percent? How the f*** did this happen to me? Sure does suck either way. I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope you get your rainbow soon!
I must be apart of that 2% as well. Miscarried then next cycle found out we were pregnant just to miscarry a few days later. Sadness is real. I was excited to give it a try this time but started bleeding mid cycle n so I know everything is just so off. Feeling extremely discouraged n sad. It's like a punch to the gut.
I am so sorry , I also had two .. They were around a year apart. There sometimes just is no rhyme or reason behind why we have them.. So many women do, I don't even believe the statistic. But it's been another year or so and we are pregnant again.. 19 weeks tomorrow! So just keep your head up, I know it's very hard. And all the " what ifs" but the way I looked at it was... The babe wasn't healthy , my body just did what it does to protect itself and although that might not find you comfort right now.. Maybe in time . Once again I am so sorry for your loss.
If you have a gene mutation it can cause you to be in that 2%. I am in that 2% also. After my second one i got genetics testing and they found out i had a gene mutation that effects the pregnancy and can cause you to loss the baby every time until you find it. Im praying for you
It may be the worst club but we are a strong club. We are supportive, understanding and we are here for each other. We need to be stronger than we ever knew we were capable of. Two in 6 months. Going to try to get pregnant again in September.
I'm so sorry:(. I lost two back to back last year and finally got pregnant in May- lost that one too. Can't find ANY reason at all for all the early loses. I'm on the tail end of my TWW with IUI# 2 and if this doesn't work we will have to have an IVF consult so we can do genetic testing on the embryos. My heart aches for you and you are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers.
I had three consecutive miscarriages after my fourth baby. I thought that we were finished having babies... Two years later, I found out that I was 11 1/2 weeks pregnant--I was shocked that I hadn't miscarried.
After I had the baby, I was googling to see if I could safely take a baby aspirin while nursing--and found article after article about women being able to avoid miscarriage through a baby aspirin a day. I'd been taking one per day before I got pregnant (and while I was unknowingly pregnant)--I was paranoid about some chest pains I was feeling, and I'd heard that it wouldn't be harmful to try.
I felt like I had discovered *why* I'd miscarried. I did miscarry again after that baby--I didn't catch on in time. But as soon as I found out that I was pregnant with my 2-yr old, I started taking baby aspirin every day. With this pregnancy, I was already taking one per day.
What I read is that I likely have "thick blood", that clogs the umbilical cord, depriving the baby of oxygen. The baby aspirin thins the blood. Once I'm through the first trimester, I can safely stop taking it. I hope this can help someone else♡♡♡
I'm in the 2% too. I had a stillborn son in june last year and then after falling pregnant almost straight away I lost my second son at 16wks in the November. To loose a rainbow baby is like loosing hope....
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I'm sorry.
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I honestly don't get it either ! I'm sorry for your lost Hun! ??
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I'm sorry newly. I was rooting for you. I had 2MCs back to back as well. One at 10w and one at 5w. It was very overwhelming and honestly I know the magic number is 3 (with no clinical reason for it), but after my second I decided to see a reproductive endocrinologist. They've given me some piece of mind and I'm praying its worked. Maybe that is a next step if your insurance covers it?
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I'm sorry. I had a mc in April and I just had one last week too. I kept asking myself this as well. How could I possibly be in that small of a group?!? I know it's not fair. I wish I could tell you something to make it better but so far I haven't found what to tell myself either.
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I had a Mc in April and found out this Monday that this baby has passed also. Both at 8 weeks. I'm sorry for your loss. Just wanted to let you know you're not alone.
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I know a woman I went to school with who had 2 rainbow babies and the 3rd time she carried to full term. Healthy baby girl! Don't give up hope!
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Being in the 2% sucks. I had a miscarriage in August and again in December no luck getting pregnant since.
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I am in the 2% too but after my second one I took a couple months break and then got pregnant with my rainbow and now have a 9 month old beautiful baby boy!
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I had 3 mcs in a row (5, 13, and 8 wks). I also felt so angry, frustrated, and confused why I had to be the 1 in 100. Now I'm pregnant again and 28 weeks. Hoping this will all work and we'll get our rainbow baby! Keep your head up and be patient with your emotions. It will work out for you and you'll appreciate it that much more!
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Being in the 2% is s*** , just doesn't feel fair does it? I'm on pregnancy #3 now though, and we've nicknamed our baby 'Lucky' coz third time lucky right? Really hope that's the case for everyone in that 2%! Xx
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I know I think about it all of the time. I ask myself how the f¥
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Looks like I'm joining you. Same exact thing that happened to you has happened to me. Strong lines, then nothing. This is the worst feeling in the world.
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This is the worst club ever
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I feel the same way. What percentage is ectopic pregnancies, I read like 1 percent? How the f*** did this happen to me? Sure does suck either way. I'm sorry you are going through this. I hope you get your rainbow soon!
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I must be apart of that 2% as well. Miscarried then next cycle found out we were pregnant just to miscarry a few days later. Sadness is real. I was excited to give it a try this time but started bleeding mid cycle n so I know everything is just so off. Feeling extremely discouraged n sad. It's like a punch to the gut.
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I am so sorry , I also had two .. They were around a year apart. There sometimes just is no rhyme or reason behind why we have them.. So many women do, I don't even believe the statistic. But it's been another year or so and we are pregnant again.. 19 weeks tomorrow! So just keep your head up, I know it's very hard. And all the " what ifs" but the way I looked at it was... The babe wasn't healthy , my body just did what it does to protect itself and although that might not find you comfort right now.. Maybe in time . Once again I am so sorry for your loss.
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I had two back to back but my mom had three then two.
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If you have a gene mutation it can cause you to be in that 2%. I am in that 2% also. After my second one i got genetics testing and they found out i had a gene mutation that effects the pregnancy and can cause you to loss the baby every time until you find it. Im praying for you
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I'm sorry hunny I'm in that 2% as well I hope u get ur healthy rainbow baby soon
My miscarriages were October of last year and then June this year
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It may be the worst club but we are a strong club. We are supportive, understanding and we are here for each other. We need to be stronger than we ever knew we were capable of. Two in 6 months. Going to try to get pregnant again in September.
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I'm so sorry:(. I lost two back to back last year and finally got pregnant in May- lost that one too. Can't find ANY reason at all for all the early loses. I'm on the tail end of my TWW with IUI# 2 and if this doesn't work we will have to have an IVF consult so we can do genetic testing on the embryos. My heart aches for you and you are absolutely in my thoughts and prayers.
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I also had two in a row. It sucks. It's one of the worst things I had to heal from.
I'm currently 31 weeks pregnant, doctors have no reason for me
to miscarriage the last two times.
Thinking of you.
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I had three consecutive miscarriages after my fourth baby. I thought that we were finished having babies... Two years later, I found out that I was 11 1/2 weeks pregnant--I was shocked that I hadn't miscarried.
After I had the baby, I was googling to see if I could safely take a baby aspirin while nursing--and found article after article about women being able to avoid miscarriage through a baby aspirin a day. I'd been taking one per day before I got pregnant (and while I was unknowingly pregnant)--I was paranoid about some chest pains I was feeling, and I'd heard that it wouldn't be harmful to try.
I felt like I had discovered *why* I'd miscarried. I did miscarry again after that baby--I didn't catch on in time. But as soon as I found out that I was pregnant with my 2-yr old, I started taking baby aspirin every day. With this pregnancy, I was already taking one per day.
What I read is that I likely have "thick blood", that clogs the umbilical cord, depriving the baby of oxygen. The baby aspirin thins the blood. Once I'm through the first trimester, I can safely stop taking it. I hope this can help someone else♡♡♡
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I have had 4 miscarriages so I guess I'm in the 2%
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I'm in the 2% too. I had a stillborn son in june last year and then after falling pregnant almost straight away I lost my second son at 16wks in the November. To loose a rainbow baby is like loosing hope....