Trying again After 10 years of infertility, my hubby and I were pregnant with twins. I miscarried…
Trying again
After 10 years of infertility, my hubby and I were pregnant with twins. I miscarried one early on in the pregnancy, and now my son is 2. I am terrified of trying again. I keep having a feeling that our family is not done growing but I am absolutely petrified of dealing with infertility again and I feel so guilty for wanting more when I have my miracle boy in my arms. I'm not expecting any response or pep talks, just needed a place to let my bottled up emotions out. I just don't know what to do and I'm trying just to have faith that things will work out.
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It's hard to deal with the infertility issue, but after all it's worth it
give it a try
and god will give you all the strength you need ??
we will be here to support you
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Sometimes for things to work out, we have to take action and steps forward. I've had many talks with our pastor about how do I know if we should keep plugging away with my attempts to conceive another child or give up. He said you rarely get a lightning bolt answer and to take steps and let God bump you where He wants you. That's the approach I have been taking. I ask God to align my will with His. I pray my wanting to please Him, pleases Him. I don't know if you are a believer or not, but taking action vs waiting is probably good advice for anyone.
Good luck with everything!
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I think we all get a little or a lot anxious when it comes to ttc. We've been ttc for 10 years and every year that passes gets harder. Every time I come back from a break I get that same anxiety. I have a fear that it'll never happen. I've told myself that I'd be happy without kids but I know it's not true.