Middle of the night My son used to sleep through the night then around September he started waking…

Instead of nursing him have you tried just going in his room, laying him down and rubbing his back? As long as my daughter isn't too worked up that's what I do.. Even if she cries for 5 or 10 minutes while I'm with her I don't say anything just rub her back and she falls back asleep eventually. Try it with your son.. It probably won't work that well until you try a few times but maybe he once realizes he's not going to be fed in the middle of the night he'll eat more before bed to even it out and stop waking up. Who knows what goes through the toddlers heads... Lol

Yeah I try that. As soon as he has sat or stood up I know there's no going back down. Last night I tried and it didn't work so I said to him "you're okay, mommy loves you. I'm going to take you out and nurse you but then you're going to go back to sleep in your crib." It actually worked. I have no idea if it was a coincidence but it worked. I don't mind if I can nurse him then put him back down. It just kills my shoulders and neck to have to sleep on the couch.

I don't nurse anymore but my daughter used to sleep through the night too until about a month ago, now she usually wakes up once and she will cry and fuss till I give her a bottle, I've tried just putting the pitty in her mouth but she will keep on till I give her the bottle, the good thing is then she will sleep the rest of the night but I thought we were done with waking up! ? i don't know what to do either

And another thing, they say he should be sleeping 11-12 hours a night. He sleeps 9 at the most. Usually 8-8.5.