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Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

balance 2nd time and experienced moms, how do you guys balance it all?? Work, kids, husband/bf/SO,…

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2nd time and experienced moms, how do you guys balance it all?? Work, kids, husband/bf/SO, house work, meals, yourself?? I'm so overwhelmed with everything and just trying to get a handle on things but SO is so not understanding. He doesn't believe pregnancy brain is a real thing. I forget everything ESPECIALLY doctors appts. I always remember like the night before or the day of...

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It's not easy, but try not to stress about the little things. I am currently working full time, going to school 3 nights a week, 5 hours each night, have a 3 almost 4 year old, and my husband travel out of town for work a lot. You can do it! Keep your head up!

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i have 2 now going on 3. its not as hard as you think. i always had my daughter ons schedule so it helped 1000%. i would take a nap with both at 11-12pm. i would cook in the morning (have the swing in the kitchen) toddler with toys/tv in living room. SO would help out when he got home so i can take a shower and toddler also. and he would wash clothes. Dont worry, dont stress. it will be okay? you will find a schedule that works for you. ( i feel the same way at times but it will be okay)

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texxie

Tex

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

My SO is going to school and I have to help him with that as well. It is SO hars trying to get everything done and keep my daughter entertained in the meantime. I try to write everything down but it doesn't really work.

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texxie

Tex

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

Thank you!! I do have to find a balance so that everything will run smoothly

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My biggest struggle this time is being tired all the time I feel completely exhausted from this pregnancy already i just wanna sleep sleep sleep but my almost one year and work don’t allow me ?

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texxie

Tex

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (17 нед.)

@babynegron me too!!! I have a 3yo and she wakes me up at 8am even on the weekend! ?

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Well luckily my DH helps me a lot around the house. It wouldn't function without him. But with the forgetfulness I just write a lot of reminders on my phone. So if I do forget something, I'll have an alarm that goes off to remind me or whatever. And we also have a family calendar where we write everything down.

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texxie

Tex

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (18 нед.)

@mireya I have a calendar posted too but rarely use it. I will start putting that to work. And I'll go get some dry erase markers so I can use that

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I just wing it lol... Pregnant with my 3rd and it's easier since I'm a sahm. I get up make hubby lunch for work, he leaves, i sleep for another hour or so.... Then the girls get up and i get my oldest (4) breakfast and showered for school since she goes in at 12. While she showers i get baby ready, diaper bag ready, iron daughters uniform and By 1130 we leave for school since its about 20 mins away. Come home, clean, baby naps, and i rest for about 30 mins depending on how messy house is. Then by 330 we leave to pick up ny daughter at 4. Come home make dinner, help her with homework. Hubby gets home at 6. He showers, we eat dinner. Clean up change girls into bedtime clothes, read a book and bedtime by 8 for them. Gives us time to relax, i shower, and we watch tv for a bit then sleep. Not as hard as everyone thinks, unless your baby is like mine and non stop clingy lol, makes it harder but not impossible.

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