HELP!!! So I'm venting..need some advice. My SO is a great person, best guy I've ever been with,…
HELP!!!
So I'm venting..need some advice. My SO is a great person, best guy I've ever been with, BUT, he does not understand what I'm going through emotionally. I'm on antidepressants, I'm moody, want my space unfortunately, and I get cramps at night around the same time every night. He always tells me he is not understanding the depression part and told me told that when he sees me, which is usually at night when I get home, i feel bad...meaning I say I have bad cramps or a headache or I'm tired. I told him it's not excuses and that's how I actually feel..he said he understands or is trying to understand.
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Try to give him affection another way. I understand your moods it's normal but show him something nice. It would be a disaster if he is forced to cheat.
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My poor deprived husband drops the "sex, wonder what that's like" I know he's joking but I know he misses the booty. We work opposite shifts now which didn't help bedroom time AT ALL. He understands though, it's our second baby. I deff try to show affection any other way I can. I literally shower him with compliments daily, give him back rubs, and butterfly kisses. Just let your man know how much you appreciate him being there and understanding. Our bodies are being wrecked physically and emotionally right now but it's only temporary.