Stress! I haven’t been feeling but luckily it is starting to ease up, phewww! I’m getting stressed…

I understand how your feeling.. It's like he is on repeat with the same thing and you wanna help but your so tired of hearing him but at the same time upset because you wanna help him and just can't so it stresses you out badly at least that's how I am when hubby stresses over the same thing all day... Wish I could just give you a big OL HUG! I'm sorry your going through this both you and hubby.. Maybe try to sit down with him and try to understand each other on the situation and explain your thoughts a d feelings.. Here if ya need me luv

Thank you so much girl, I really appreciate it. I can’t help but feel like me being pregnant is stressing him out even more I don’t know then you know my hormones I start thinking like omg I can’t deal with this for the rest of my life because I’m a worry wart myself and I need someone to be calm lol ugh but I know you understand because yeah it’s like I’m balancing but then I get mad because I’m like enough is enough ahhhh, hopefully it passes soon, I just took a relaxing shower to soothe me and my baby bun

It’s so hard to not stress/ be consumed with their issues... does he feel better after he talks to you? Does he listen to what you say? I can get really down in the dumps about stuff but if someone listens and doesn’t give me unrealistic advice or make me feel like a crumb, I usually feel better... but the people I talk to won’t ever stress out about my situation (husband and Mom ?- I guess I’m too emotional and get too worked up over things no one can relate to ???‍♀️)... is he difficult to give advice to? Does he end up seeming hopeless and you just wanna tell him to quit his job and go to bed?! Or is it more he needs a minute to vent?

I mean you could offer him some cookies or cake or some coffee while he is venting... maybe after say, “let’s watch something funny like the office or bob’s burgers or flight of the conchords”... maybe that will help you and him not feel so stressed... might be lame advice but we resort to funny shows and small snacks to relax to after hefty topics... doesn’t solve the problem but it kills the impending stress

Oh shoot! That was long! Sorry

Dh... those dear sweet STUPID men. Mine does the same. Until two weeks ago, I worked 47-50 hours a week, got babies ready in the morning, dropped one off, took my 6 month old to work with me (hardest thing I’ve ever done), picked up big guy at daycare, hit the store 2-3 Times a week (ugh), cooked dinner, entertained babies, cleaned, baths, bed. Mostly on my own. But somehow dh had it harder. Now that I’m only working one day a week, I’m less stressed. And guess what? He is too. Kids cry less. Even the dog is happier. I’m not trying to blame myself, but there just may be something to “happy wife happy life” ??‍♀️

Maybe focus on yourself and he will follow.

Either way, HUGS because we know ❤️

How you feeling today luv

Thanks ladies I appreciate the support and advice for you all ?

Prayers, thanks for checking in on me! I’m feeling better I was just down and his stress was causing me stressed so I took a break from my phone for a few days to try to relax, thankfully I do feel better now! Thanks for checking in again ?

Glad to see you back, I understand some time away is good.. But you can't do that any more to me! Lol ?

Haha aww thanks Prayers! And deal ?