Where are my friends Maybe it's because I'm hormonal with so much going on with my family and work…
Where are my friends
Maybe it's because I'm hormonal with so much going on with my family and work but I just feel like certain friends have been distancing themselves from me because I am pregnant-I don't get invited to places because there is alcohol involved like Ocktoberfest etc but hellooooo I can eat food and just chat while they drink, I'm just feeling left out ? anyone in the same boat?
deleted-user·
It's extremely common especially if you're one of the firsts to get pregnant
deleted-user·
Yes. I'm getting left out from my friends especially the ones that don't have kids. Its normal. And really I'm too tired to be around drunkards anyway. I'd rather be at home with my family
deleted-user·
I moved when I got married and still getting used to this place. The only friends I have are my sister in laws and friends at school.
My best friend stopped talking to me as soon as I told her I was pregnant. No congrats, no text whatsoever. It really bummed me out :(
Katrina K·
Thanks ladies! I'm just like hey friends I can do dinner dates to catch up but I feel they choose to go out with their friends that can drink instead and have no more time for me ?
deleted-user·
I was 17 when I got pregnant with my first daughter and pretty much lost every friend I had cause I couldnt hang out at all hours of the night anymore, I couldn't go to parties any longer it was time for me to be responsible and grow up and I understand I guess cause they were still able to be teens but it sucked
deleted-user·
Find new friends! Or reconnect with old friends who you haven't spoken to in forever!
deleted-user·
Yep I think my friends think pregnancy is a contagious disease, cause they have disappeared :(
deleted-user·
Oh not just the first pregnancy either. This is my third, most of my friends kids are over 4-5 years old and literally everyone vanished. If I run into them it's only talk of the pregnancy then ok bye. It's even more annoying that they're active on my Facebook but then I'm cut out of real life. Like they comment on my stuff but I have some kind of disease where I'm locked away until it's over and the baby is 5 and not annoying anymore lol
deleted-user·
Pregnancy reveals who really f*** s with you n who doesn't.
deleted-user·
Am the same way they just distance they self from me but oh well who cares I rather stay at home and enjoy myself and my babies and husband