Been together a little over two years and it's way better. We are comfortable completely with each other and know what we like. I have a vibrator and we use it here and there but not often at all. Just the nights we want to be a little extra freaky ?
We've been together for about 5 years and it's just barely starting to get a little better. It was ok in the beginning but once I got pregnant everything went down ??? after I had her it still wasn't great then I had my last baby and she's been nursing and in our bed since she was born (20 months now) but we're working on putting her to sleep on her bed so that has really helped have some alone time. He can't concentrate if they're in our room even if they are sleeping so this whole time I couldn't figure out why he never wanted to but since we started taking her out of our room he's really started trying to have more sex.
Yes! Except it gets kinda crappy during pregnancy...not at the fault of my husband. I just hurt more and lose sensation.
Throughout the years our sex has gotten better and better. It started out good but we didn't explore too much in the begining. Since then the dynamic in our relationship has evolved and we are more open then ever.
Fourteen years together! With three kids it doesn't happen as often as we'd like but it's still amazing. Our 2017 resolutions were to start using more toys and do more foreplay ?
Yes, almost 4 years, better(with couching ??), we have used toys but most of the time not.
:: i will say I prefer a VERY dominant man (like 50 shades style) and he is not like that, so I've learned to love his style, while still making sure my need are satisfied!
We still have a great and relativly adventurous sex life. We have been together 6 years, we have 1 son and I'm currently pregnant with twins. So far pregnancy hasn't effected things to much but I'm only 14 weeks right now.
We don't use toys (yet ?) but we're pretty adventurous with trying things.
We've been together for almost 3 years and it's gotten better but I think it generally does as relationships go on. You learn each other's groove, what they like, and are more comfortable talking about things to try.
Been together 4 years. I don't have a ton of previous experience, but he is by far, the best. We deeply care about each other and I think that is a contributing factor. We're both very comfortable with one another. There is a lot of trust and it has created a very intimate bond. Pregnancy sex has sucked this time around. But this is our last, and I can't wait to see how things are after it is born.
5 years. It has it's ups and downs. Not going to lie, isn't great all the time but a majority of the time it is. It's always enjoyable though and I don't always hit the big O, but that's normal for me, I didn't even knew what it felt like before DH, lol. Currently it's much better. We haven't use anything out of blindfolds and handcuffs but DH wants to get some more adult toys, lol, which I do not abject.
We've been together 11 years, married for 8. We have 4 kids ranging from 7 to 2 years old. We still have the same "spark" like when we first met. Sex is always amazing even if it's a quickie in the bathroom with the door locked. We have toys but don't use them all the time. I could be walking around in a garbage bag and he'd still be like "heeeeeeey baby" ? we're just a bunch of goofs that are still in love ?
We have been together for 4+ years and it has gotten shorter lol we used to last way longer and I would sometimes I get bored. Now that we have a child, we are quicker. He also has learned the tricks to make me finish quick so he doesn't need extra time. We don't use toys usually because I don't like to be overstimulated.
4 years. Yes I enjoy it and it's gotten better however lately my sex drive has decreased but I think that's just exhaustion getting to me. We use toys sometimes but not every time.
24 years together next month. I enjoy it much more now than when we were 16 and inexperienced lol. Since we have a 5 and 1 year old, it's harder ( no pun intended lol) to have any quality time but we make it work. I had a post a while back about sneaking around our kids to have quickies lol
We've been together for 7 years. It's gotten better although definitely less frequent now that we have a toddler and another on the way. The first couple years we could have sex all the time. But kids seem to have a sense of when you want to get busy and find a way to stop it ?. We use toys sometimes but most of the time we don't.
Yes I enjoy sex with dh. We've been together for almost 7 years and it's gotten better. With two kids there's moments we don't have sex as often as we used to but we definitely take advantage of the moments we can. We have not tried toys.
Before we had a baby we had such a great sex life. Seriously it was amazing. Then I got pregnant and had a really tough pregnancy and I was on bedrest and obvi couldn't have sex and now my son won't sleep anywhere but with me and our sex life is just dead at this point. It's been so long I think we both feel awkward now. I hate it. I hope we can get back into a good place again soon.
We've been together 7 years. It's gotten better with time although we were rabbits in the beginning and I do miss that excitement. The only time I don't enjoy sex is when im pregnant.
We've never used toys he's always played with the idea of the vibrating ?ring but that's as far as its gone. I've mentioned introducing something but then he seems insecure so I let it go.
Together 9 years, have 2 kids. Yes I enjoy it! It's still just as good as it was when we were younger just probably not as frequent. I'm now pregnant with our 3rd and I literally never want to have sex. I feel bad for my husband lol I am just NOT in the mood at all. And we only use toys once in a blue moon.
Do you ladies always O when dtd? I rarely O when having intercourse with dh but i always have a good time so im just wondering what helps you ladies reaxh orgasm. I feel like im missing out and i dont know why its so hard for me to get there.
Ben together 5 years and our sex life was really good in beginning then I got preggo six month in and it went down the s*** ter after getting preggo and my libido never returned till I had baby number two after I had her my libido sky rocketed we were doing it all the time 2+ times a day everyday I was so happy I even decided I didn't want anymore babies in fear that I'd go back to how I was after dd1 but with lots of sex comes lots of chances to get preggo and now I'm 9months with number three and there is so much pain I barely want him to touch me I really hope my libido returns after baby ??? bc he sure knows how to wiggle lmao
@kzim I used to have a lot of trouble orgasming when we dtd. Finally we discovered that lots of foreplay helps. I usually O during foreplay and that makes me more sensitive and more likely to O when we dtd.
We enjoy it when the rare opportunity appears. I think it has gotten better. We both waited until we were married so we figured things out along the way and have learned to communicate.
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Yes, 10 years, better (we are more comfortable with each other and experiment more), sometimes.
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Yes, 5 years, better and no not yet we joke about it maybe in the future
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Almost 9 years and it has gotten better
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Never used a toy
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3 years. It has gotten better. He had to learn how to master the O. ??
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Been together a little over two years and it's way better. We are comfortable completely with each other and know what we like. I have a vibrator and we use it here and there but not often at all. Just the nights we want to be a little extra freaky ?
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We've been together for about 5 years and it's just barely starting to get a little better. It was ok in the beginning but once I got pregnant everything went down ??? after I had her it still wasn't great then I had my last baby and she's been nursing and in our bed since she was born (20 months now) but we're working on putting her to sleep on her bed so that has really helped have some alone time. He can't concentrate if they're in our room even if they are sleeping so this whole time I couldn't figure out why he never wanted to but since we started taking her out of our room he's really started trying to have more sex.
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Been together for 8 years and it's still the best ever.
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Yes! Except it gets kinda crappy during pregnancy...not at the fault of my husband. I just hurt more and lose sensation.
Throughout the years our sex has gotten better and better. It started out good but we didn't explore too much in the begining. Since then the dynamic in our relationship has evolved and we are more open then ever.
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We have been married for almost 4 years.
Pregnancies, babies, and toddlers make for some inconsistent sex but it's great when it does happen. We don't use any toys or porn.
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Fourteen years together! With three kids it doesn't happen as often as we'd like but it's still amazing. Our 2017 resolutions were to start using more toys and do more foreplay ?
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Yes, almost 4 years, better(with couching ??), we have used toys but most of the time not.
:: i will say I prefer a VERY dominant man (like 50 shades style) and he is not like that, so I've learned to love his style, while still making sure my need are satisfied!
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We still have a great and relativly adventurous sex life. We have been together 6 years, we have 1 son and I'm currently pregnant with twins. So far pregnancy hasn't effected things to much but I'm only 14 weeks right now.
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Yes! It's always a ton of fun. ?
We don't use toys (yet ?) but we're pretty adventurous with trying things.
We've been together for almost 3 years and it's gotten better but I think it generally does as relationships go on. You learn each other's groove, what they like, and are more comfortable talking about things to try.
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Been together 4 years. I don't have a ton of previous experience, but he is by far, the best. We deeply care about each other and I think that is a contributing factor. We're both very comfortable with one another. There is a lot of trust and it has created a very intimate bond. Pregnancy sex has sucked this time around. But this is our last, and I can't wait to see how things are after it is born.
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5 years. It has it's ups and downs. Not going to lie, isn't great all the time but a majority of the time it is. It's always enjoyable though and I don't always hit the big O, but that's normal for me, I didn't even knew what it felt like before DH, lol. Currently it's much better. We haven't use anything out of blindfolds and handcuffs but DH wants to get some more adult toys, lol, which I do not abject.
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We've been together 11 years, married for 8. We have 4 kids ranging from 7 to 2 years old. We still have the same "spark" like when we first met. Sex is always amazing even if it's a quickie in the bathroom with the door locked. We have toys but don't use them all the time. I could be walking around in a garbage bag and he'd still be like "heeeeeeey baby" ? we're just a bunch of goofs that are still in love ?
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Been together 18 months.
It was awful at first but now it's pretty amazing.
I imagine it'll only get better from here.
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Our sex life is ok. But its dying out now...it been this way since our first baby was born.
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Together 7, married almost 4, our sex life is the best it's ever been right now. never used toys.
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Been together 7 years, married 3. It's definitely gotten better considering we were 17 when we started doing it ??
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We have been together for 4+ years and it has gotten shorter lol we used to last way longer and I would sometimes I get bored. Now that we have a child, we are quicker. He also has learned the tricks to make me finish quick so he doesn't need extra time. We don't use toys usually because I don't like to be overstimulated.
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4 years. Yes I enjoy it and it's gotten better however lately my sex drive has decreased but I think that's just exhaustion getting to me. We use toys sometimes but not every time.
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24 years together next month. I enjoy it much more now than when we were 16 and inexperienced lol. Since we have a 5 and 1 year old, it's harder ( no pun intended lol) to have any quality time but we make it work. I had a post a while back about sneaking around our kids to have quickies lol
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We've been together for 7 years. It's gotten better although definitely less frequent now that we have a toddler and another on the way. The first couple years we could have sex all the time. But kids seem to have a sense of when you want to get busy and find a way to stop it ?. We use toys sometimes but most of the time we don't.
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Yes I enjoy sex with dh. We've been together for almost 7 years and it's gotten better. With two kids there's moments we don't have sex as often as we used to but we definitely take advantage of the moments we can. We have not tried toys.
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Before we had a baby we had such a great sex life. Seriously it was amazing. Then I got pregnant and had a really tough pregnancy and I was on bedrest and obvi couldn't have sex and now my son won't sleep anywhere but with me and our sex life is just dead at this point. It's been so long I think we both feel awkward now. I hate it. I hope we can get back into a good place again soon.
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When our sex life was good it was great I always enjoyed it. We used toys sometimes but not always.
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We've been together 7 years. It's gotten better with time although we were rabbits in the beginning and I do miss that excitement. The only time I don't enjoy sex is when im pregnant.
We've never used toys he's always played with the idea of the vibrating ?ring but that's as far as its gone. I've mentioned introducing something but then he seems insecure so I let it go.
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We enjoy it, we don't do it as often now that we have two under 2.
When we do have sex it's great, yes we use toys. Been together 6.5 years today.
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Together 9 years, have 2 kids. Yes I enjoy it! It's still just as good as it was when we were younger just probably not as frequent. I'm now pregnant with our 3rd and I literally never want to have sex. I feel bad for my husband lol I am just NOT in the mood at all. And we only use toys once in a blue moon.
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Do you ladies always O when dtd? I rarely O when having intercourse with dh but i always have a good time so im just wondering what helps you ladies reaxh orgasm. I feel like im missing out and i dont know why its so hard for me to get there.
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Ben together 5 years and our sex life was really good in beginning then I got preggo six month in and it went down the s*** ter after getting preggo and my libido never returned till I had baby number two after I had her my libido sky rocketed we were doing it all the time 2+ times a day everyday I was so happy I even decided I didn't want anymore babies in fear that I'd go back to how I was after dd1 but with lots of sex comes lots of chances to get preggo and now I'm 9months with number three and there is so much pain I barely want him to touch me I really hope my libido returns after baby ??? bc he sure knows how to wiggle lmao
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@kzim I used to have a lot of trouble orgasming when we dtd. Finally we discovered that lots of foreplay helps. I usually O during foreplay and that makes me more sensitive and more likely to O when we dtd.
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We've been together going on 8 years now, we've been having sex for almost 7.
We most definitely don't do it as much, but it has gotten a lot better!
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We enjoy it when the rare opportunity appears. I think it has gotten better. We both waited until we were married so we figured things out along the way and have learned to communicate.