Non pregnancy dilemma I'm having an extremely difficult dilemma right now. I moved away from my…
Non pregnancy dilemma
I'm having an extremely difficult dilemma right now. I moved away from my family when I had married my husband. We've been married for about 6 months now, and I'm 16 weeks pregnant. My son had stayed with my parents (with constant visits from me) because they had prepaid for a year at a private school. Now, I've I'm dealing with complications with this pregnancy. I told my husband (who just started a new job) how badly I needed to move to be near my family about a month ago. He pretty much ignored my wishes and has become obsessed with his job. Before we had gotten pregnant, he knew how close my family and I were and agreed to move. Now, it's a complete 180. Where we are living now is extremely impoverished, racism is strong (I have a biracial child), and the schools suck. Hubby is just completely blinded by this! What am I to do?
deleted-user·
Pray honey. Try to talk to him again. If it doesn't work then you have to do what's BEST for you & the baby. Especially if you're having complications. You do need to be close to family or friends that's able to be there just in case you need them. Just my opinion.
deleted-user·
That sounds terrible. I would keep telling him you need to get home. Can he get a similar job back there?
Lisa Prinz·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (16 нед.)
Yeah, he can. But, he won't. He works for a big chain car retail store. He says that he won't be able to find co-workers like those. Ok. choosing co-workers over wife. The more I type, the angrier I get. haha
deleted-user·
Oh I'd be mad too. Try to sit and talk with him. Well being of the family is definitely more important what people he works with. Those will come and go.