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Yoli Medina
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Yoli Medina·Мама троих детей
Baby wearing.

Am I the only one that doesn't like it? Maybe I'm not doing it right but it just isn't for me.
12.04.2017

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I never did with any of my kids. I found it cumbersome.
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Nope. Not a fan. And both my kids hated it too. It hurts my back and I sweat profusely.
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I really, really, really, don't want to but I'm considering buying one just so I can grocery shop because my toddler is not the best behaved child surrounded by isles of food. He would still need to ride in the cart so I would have nowhere to put food
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Nope. I hate it lol.
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downtherabbithole
Yoli Medina·Мама троих детей
@yaya Actually, having that extra space in the grocery cart WOULD be great. Lol. I always have my 1 year old sitting in the basket and my 3 month old in his car seat inside the basket too. I'm left with VERY LITTLE space if I shop alone. Maybe I'll give it another try.
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I didn't really like it at first i have huge boobs and so LO always made me hot and sweaty even in the cold winter and it killed my back. Once I moved her to back pack position I like it. It is a little difficult to get her in that position by myself tho
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I purchased an ergo before dd1 was born. She hated being in her pram so it became an essential item I used with her. Only negative was that she was a summer baby and the insert made things a bit hot. I have since purchased a few ring slings as well which I used a lot with her until it hurt my hips too much in this pregnancy. I now have a hug a bub (stretchy wrap) to use for my dd2 when she is born. I love baby wearing, so does dd1 and hopefully dd2 will too. And tbh I actually hate using our pram and stroller.
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My baby can only stand 30 mins after that she starts crying so I've stopped
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It hurts my back ?
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I don't like it either! I'm 5'3 and my baby is a big boy! It just so awkward and uncomfortable. I bought a Tula and used it like 5 times maybe ?
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I couldn't stand it and I know my oldest daughter couldn't either. She actually gave me 2 of her carriers because she didn't like it. I tried it but my back just wouldn't stop aching. It's not the best generally anyway so i don't think that helped.
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Having a carrier you like makes ALL the difference!!

Really. It does.

I loathe Tulas... if that was our carrier I'd hate wearing too.

I love wrapping though & wearing DD wrapped (woven wrap NOT a moby) helped me like wearing better.
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It was also perfect for grocery shopping. I didn't need to use basket space for the carseat carrier and he would fall asleep on my chest while I walked around shopping. Sometimes I put a washcloth between my chest and his head because he would sometimes get sweaty. It helped me feel more comfortable if he wasn't directly against my skin all the time.
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Those are exactly the ones I hated with my first 2 babies. The Moby was hot, awkward, and hurt my back. The Bjorn also hurt my back and I didn't like the dangling legs. It never felt right. With my third baby I got the Ergo Sport. I love it! It wasn't hot, my back felt fine, and I could use it easily on my own in 3 different positions. My youngest is 3 and I still use it as a backpack carrier when we go hiking.
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downtherabbithole
Yoli Medina·Мама троих детей
Yaya i don't like the constant contact either. I love holding them but I feel so uncomfortable baby wearing. What kind of carrier did you use with your 3rd??
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Everyone's experience is different and it's different at different times, too. I wasn't comfortable with babywearing with my first 2 babies. I was using the wrong kind of carrier so it wasn't comfortable. And I wasn't a fan of the constant contact. I was getting touched out very quickly. Honestly, I regret not doing it more with them. By the time I had my 3rd baby I found a carrier I loved and I embraced my role as primary caregiver and nurturer. I got more comfortable having my baby on me all day. It was a completely different experience and so much more fulfilling. With my first 2 babies I didn't realize how short and fleeting their babyhood is. It doesn't last forever and keeping them close is such a huge benefit for so many developmental reasons. I wish I had been more comfortable with it in the beginning.
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downtherabbithole
Yoli Medina·Мама троих детей
I don't even know what kind they are. I have two but I've tried them a handful of times and now they're put away somewhere lol

ETA: one is a wrap. Either Boba or Moby can't recall. The other I think is a BabyBjorn.
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I like it every now and then for out and about but not an everyday thing. What kind of career do you have op?
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I like babywearing bc it works for our needs in regards to traveling out & about.... I've never been that "maternal one" where it's about keeping my kids close. lol
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I didn't like it at first but then my husband told me I had my ergo on wrong. I fixed it and it's been a real game changer. I wear her all the time now!
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