Baby wearing.
Am I the only one that doesn't like it? Maybe I'm not doing it right but it just isn't for me.
@yaya Actually, having that extra space in the grocery cart WOULD be great. Lol. I always have my 1 year old sitting in the basket and my 3 month old in his car seat inside the basket too. I'm left with VERY LITTLE space if I shop alone. Maybe I'll give it another try.
I purchased an ergo before dd1 was born. She hated being in her pram so it became an essential item I used with her. Only negative was that she was a summer baby and the insert made things a bit hot. I have since purchased a few ring slings as well which I used a lot with her until it hurt my hips too much in this pregnancy. I now have a hug a bub (stretchy wrap) to use for my dd2 when she is born. I love baby wearing, so does dd1 and hopefully dd2 will too. And tbh I actually hate using our pram and stroller.
It was also perfect for grocery shopping. I didn't need to use basket space for the carseat carrier and he would fall asleep on my chest while I walked around shopping. Sometimes I put a washcloth between my chest and his head because he would sometimes get sweaty. It helped me feel more comfortable if he wasn't directly against my skin all the time.
Those are exactly the ones I hated with my first 2 babies. The Moby was hot, awkward, and hurt my back. The Bjorn also hurt my back and I didn't like the dangling legs. It never felt right. With my third baby I got the Ergo Sport. I love it! It wasn't hot, my back felt fine, and I could use it easily on my own in 3 different positions. My youngest is 3 and I still use it as a backpack carrier when we go hiking.
Yaya i don't like the constant contact either. I love holding them but I feel so uncomfortable baby wearing. What kind of carrier did you use with your 3rd??
Everyone's experience is different and it's different at different times, too. I wasn't comfortable with babywearing with my first 2 babies. I was using the wrong kind of carrier so it wasn't comfortable. And I wasn't a fan of the constant contact. I was getting touched out very quickly. Honestly, I regret not doing it more with them. By the time I had my 3rd baby I found a carrier I loved and I embraced my role as primary caregiver and nurturer. I got more comfortable having my baby on me all day. It was a completely different experience and so much more fulfilling. With my first 2 babies I didn't realize how short and fleeting their babyhood is. It doesn't last forever and keeping them close is such a huge benefit for so many developmental reasons. I wish I had been more comfortable with it in the beginning.
I don't even know what kind they are. I have two but I've tried them a handful of times and now they're put away somewhere lol
ETA: one is a wrap. Either Boba or Moby can't recall. The other I think is a BabyBjorn.
I never did with any of my kids. I found it cumbersome.